Deleted Member Posted January 29, 2025 Seeker and if I'm being completely honest its probably due to alot of childhood neglect and trauma...
da**** Posted January 29, 2025 Giver because I’m submissive and I feel it is my job to please my partner
Deleted Member Posted January 29, 2025 Both, I know what it is like to do without, so I refuse to let my partner or myself endure that
Female_diogenes Posted January 30, 2025 Definitely seeker. I can be more of a *** giver than pleasure giver maybe? Depending on who it is. For example with littles, yes. As a form of reward or for fun I like giving multiple orgasms, ***d if they like that, especially while they are tied. But I'm a *** giver, psychologically in other ways to other types. For example I do love *** and who doesn't. But I only get into sph if the man is truly suffering. So when a man offers me *** for sph I lose interest. So it feels like this is my interest in the scene depending on the circumstances: Is he willing to pay for sph? That's how much he loves it. My interest in it is below 0, and I wonder why this dude thinks I ever enjoyed it even once in my entire life. However, and this has actually happened many times before, so fun, if I know sph is causing him so much psychological ***, ***, dread, hopelessness, and terror, that it's akin to an existential collapse that he won't stop thinking about for days. Like real tears, the ultimate outcome would be a libido halt where he loses so much confidence he stops seeking sex for years, that's then a 10/10 on my interest scale and suddenly my favorite kink of all time. Thankfully I have a long term cuck who's ftm so I can use him as a way to experiment with sph especially since any dick is bigger than a clit, that means I can cuck him with anyone
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