wE**** Posted March 16, 2025 Id say in my past relations it was mostly because any different lifestyle were only discussed years later, thus mad it scary for me that the sudden possible incompatibility onto a major aspect of myself might destroy a relationship that was hard worked for and beautifull. Plot twist it made us break up 🤷
wE**** Posted March 16, 2025 Moral of the story, know yourself first, then know what you want. After that, just be honest and straightforward from the start. Imo this is the best it could be approached.
on**** Posted March 18, 2025 Cause some aren't open-minded or think it's disgusting to do it when in reality they don't realize it's satisfying
glossylips Posted May 11, 2025 On 3/6/2025 at 7:06 AM, Mr_Firm_Hand said: In the west there's a lot of stigma attached to exploring sex, so many folks are afraid to make themselves *** enough to share that side of themselves with a partner for *** of being judged and rejected exactly this I am open minded but also am experienced enough that it is better to be supportive of my partners and friends desires than to be comfortably selfish.
Ke**** Posted May 11, 2025 If you do enjoy BDSM, after a few dates, ask how the person you dating, what they think of BDSM. Revealing your interest in BDSM much later would be a mistake. You will hate having to hide your BDSM side from a partner. On the other hand, revealing your interest in BDSM on your first date may be ok, or could be too soon.
Deleted Member Posted June 1, 2025 Basically it's because they're uneducated. A lack of knowledge always drives a sense of *** that their partner may reject their desires for a BDSM relationship. They should take the time to learn that there are a number of techniques to communicate their intent effectively. These two books each share detailed and constructive approaches to help eliminate ***. "Uniquely Rika" A Practical No-Nonsense Approach written by Ms. Rika "Dominant Female Submissive Male" written by Sofia James
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