Hotwife/girlfriend

[Deleted Member]

I am having really strong feelings of watching my other half (Which I haven't met yet) having sex with other men. To be cuckold, humiliated sexually. Why am I finding it so hard to meet a woman who is into hotwife kink?

[Sexybunny-6457]

That's hot. 

love hotwife kink.

[ey****]

this is a fair few steps - because you basically want a partner you want to see with other people and that can be a little hard for potential partners to get their head around.

you're running a lot fantasy first here. Hotwife kink is only the start. 

[Mo****]

Mate when your going through the get to know phase, you should take things easy.  Make sure their into kinky stuff  like hotwife kink and not just trying to pretend in order to get a significant other.  Once things are confirmed and a commitment is made, then work at that for a while.  NO ONE fully admits all their kinks and fetishes up front, unfortunately, so lust like in a vanilla relationship, it takes time to fully get to know one another.  If you get to a point of about 6 months into a relationship, then bring up the thought of sharing.  If they say NO, then that becomes a limit which you have to live with.  If they say YES, then you have a pathway to the next step.  Remember to be open and honest with any prospective partner before committing, and hopefully they will be the same for you.  A lot that are coming to this life now though, have no real concept of what actually happens in the dynamic, they just see the prospect of lots of kinky sex, when in actual fact, this life goes way beyond that.

[cautiousswitch]

I like you and would like to start a relationship... but not a sexual relationship... but you can sleep with other men... as long as I can watch.

That's the short version.  The longer version is where you try to build the relationship before telling them that you want them to cuckold you and then risk ending the relationship when you do tell them.

The longer version might work if you start dating a domme with a hotwife kink and work your way to it.

[Sasha_Michaelis]

I know I personally want something similar in a relationship too but id rather have my partner at the top of the food chain/pack instead of humiliating him in a group sex setting. That's my hotwife kink. 

[mikenude69]

On 3/23/2020 at 9:04 PM, PbSub said:

I am having really strong feelings of watching my other half (Which I haven't met yet) having sex with other men. To be cuckold, humiliated sexually. Why am I finding it so hard to meet a woman who is into this?

I have a hotwife kink.Took a while to get my sexy ass wife to agree to having a mmf 3sum .... Turns out she loved sucking guys off in front of me , knew she was into it when she just got a big mouthful of cum and she kissed me swapping his cum back and forth .... Then while sucking this guy's big beautiful cock she said I wanna fuck him ... Mmmm creampie my fave.

[escortreal]

I realize I for one need something comparative in a relationship as well yet id rather have my accomplice at the highest point of the evolved way of life/pack as opposed to mortifying him in a gathering sex setting. 

Hotwife kink isn't for me. 

[Ki****]

Most cuck/hotwife couples I’ve come across are where they started dating in a vanilla capacity first, are together a long time and introduced it later. Worth saying it’s almost always the cucks suggestion. If you’re looking for someone already into this, you’re looking for a dominant woman, who is non-monogamous. The number of sub men far outnumbers the number of available dominant women in the kink scene. Surveys suggest the majority of kinky women are submissive. Add to that the fact that a small minority of people are non-monogamous, and then you’re specifically looking for a woman into cuck dynamics too. ChatGPT estimates you could be looking at 1-2% of the adult women at best. But that’s all the women, not just the single available women. Your odds of meeting someone on here are slim. There are lots of specific groups / forums for these interests on FetLife that are worth checking out, but you will find a lot of many here seeking. You’d be far better looking for events in the kink scene like munches, and also play events which specifically cater for female Domme and male subs.

[Ki****]

A lot of men there seeking I mean

[De****]

If you'll do it when your wife is a sub, than you can order it. Or fix her, put blindfolds and use her as a toy for your dark dreams ;)

[el****]

I have this

[Mi****]

That’s hot

[SS****]

Once you have it it's awesome

[Ex****]

I used to be in a relationship like this, although not really being humiliated.
I loved watching other guys make her cum. I want that excitement again.