Popular Post La**** Posted April 18 Popular Post I had an epiphany last night. You wide boys who come into my DM’s telling me all the filthy nasty things you want to do to me, and all the nasty, filthy things you want me to do to you, when I don't know you and you don't know me, and we are strangers behind two different screens, I have never understood why you'd think that that was ok. Acceptable. A way to act with a woman you hope to get to know. But I think, perhaps, now I do. Just maybe. I like porn. Who doesn't? My personal flavor is sub ***. A me (let's face it, younger, thinner, prettier) with make up smeared down her face as she tries to please the master in front of her, as she tries to take all that he has to give. And a little more. I see that and I know she loves it, really. That after all the crying is done, when she's wrapped up in a blanket with chocolate and tea, she'll smile. Melt into him. I can see it, in my head. Just like I can see what happened in the before. Slow moments of connection. Slow moments of building trust. Communication. Negotiation. Starting small, and soft. Check ins. Calling red and then long talks into the night. Brick by brick building the trust that tells her he will hurt her, break her, make her bleed and make her cry and then he'll hold her and tell her she's a good girl. I know how it goes, from beginning to end. But you don't. You don't see the journey, the tiny steps that were taken on the way to that moment, where she's bound and spread, head back, screaming, and he's calling her his whore and whipping her, slapping her, fucking her, spitting on her. You only see the climax. You only see who he is in that moment. And so, perhaps understandably, you think that's who he is. All he is. How do we learn? By copying. So you copy. You come into my PM’s and tell me I'm your whore and that you'll have me, bound and spread and screaming. But you won't. Because You joined the dance right at the end of the song, and all you know how to sing is the chorus.
da**** Posted April 18 Beautifully put and I hope this reaches those types of people eventhough it may not do much it could change a mindset or two.
de**** Posted April 18 💯 this. I would never do that to someone I barely met, and especially online. Those ones only think about the sex and dominant part of it. They can't/won't see all the steps taken the lead to that moment!
La**** Posted April 18 Author 5 minutes ago, Kingfool said: (What is a "Wide boy"? I've never heard this term) British slang for someone who's a bit dodgy. I'm using here to refer to a fuck boy type.
Ki**** Posted April 18 18 minutes ago, Minstrel said: British slang for someone who's a bit dodgy. I'm using here to refer to a fuck boy type. I love learning new terms lol. Ty ty
mi**** Posted April 18 But thank you for that good explanation I want to apologize if I ever coming to you into your chat and disrespected you like that or any woman as a matter of fact I'm glad that you have put that in the air because a lot of us men go really realize what we say and how we say it and how we disrespect or insult somebody else you know so thank you again
La**** Posted April 18 Author 16 minutes ago, 333stray333 said: Sounds like a “you” problem. Interesting, when I had the thought we were talking about how some people who come in with this attitude have the capacity to see that they approached it wrongly, and how others ... Don't... And can only react with disparagement, meanness and anger.
La**** Posted April 18 Author 20 minutes ago, UrFavorite4life said: I have no idea why Fet blocked the word *** 😅 It blocked t*rture too lol
33**** Posted April 18 32 minutes ago, Minstrel said: Interesting, when I had the thought we were talking about how some people who come in with this attitude have the capacity to see that they approached it wrongly, and how others ... Don't... And can only react with disparagement, meanness and anger. I just think its your perspective and opinion. Theres many energies, languages, and ways to play. Maybe its the “wrong” way to aaproach YOU- but they dont know you yet, do they? And given the difference in philosophy- they probably dont want to know you- youre just a body- no- a photo, until you show your overly self important and sensitive personality. Its just not that big of a deal m8. Dance or dont.
Mi**** Posted April 18 I agree with your post that these men come on here and just message women whatever they want, never researching the lifestyle they are stepping into. It goes the same way on the femdom side of things.
Ur**** Posted April 18 3 minutes ago, Minstrel said: It blocked t*rture too lol Why r u blocking the word ***? 😅😂
Ur**** Posted April 18 5 minutes ago, Minstrel said: It blocked t*rture too lol My bad, i misunderstood your comment. I thought you said you blocked it 😅😂 Apologies
33**** Posted April 18 36 minutes ago, denver24673 said: Minstrel- that guy sounds exactly like the kind of you're talking about! 🤣 Thank you for your service, sir.
33**** Posted April 18 Lolol did you delete my comment? THATS SO EMBARRASSING. How unethical 😂 cant even bear to have a counter point argued.
Da**** Posted April 18 This is why I usually start my messages with “I apologise for my gender” I don’t know what scares me more that some men don’t get it or some that get butt hurt by people posting about it. As someone who worked in gyms for 20years, they want the rewards without the reps. Great post.
La**** Posted April 18 Author 20 minutes ago, 333stray333 said: Lolol did you delete my comment? THATS SO EMBARRASSING. How unethical 😂 cant even bear to have a counter point argued. I didn't, actually. Would you like to backtrack?
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