What Was A Game Changing Discovery You Made In The Bedroom?

[BJ****]

What was a discovery you made in the bedroom that changed the way you and your partner play? It could be for better or for worse, but it should be something that completely altered your life and changed how you view sex or even how you view your own body!
For me, it was one time last month when I was doing a session with me and my friend with benefits. Instead of jumping straight into bed, I tied her up and focused on spanking her and punishing her. I didn't worry about weather I was getting off or about what was getting her off (when your spanking someone, your focusing behind them and not seeing their face or their body infront of them.
In that moment, I realized that sexual activity doesn't have to lead to getting someone or yourself off. It can be a way to transition into fun and tease your body even more. As a result, you get an even greater orgasm!
But yeah, let me know what you think.

[Ke****]

When she suddenly stuck a finger up my ass

[Mi****]

Having restraints easily accessible everywhere, mattress restraints, restraints on door, hook on ceiling etc. Boring using same bindings in same place.

[Deleted Member]

About a year ago, even after being together for a million years, my husband and I were aware that I enjoyed finger necklaces, real tight ones, but we didn't realize to what extent. When I had an orgasm from a lack of oxygen for the first time, it was very eye opening. I then started to notice that I hold my breath when I have an orgasm even in vanilla sex. It's a fetish at this point. Changed our whole foreplay dynamic.

[Cu****]

When i learned to relax, fully ask for what i wanted. I went from a woman who thought my partner held the power to make me cum. The I realized that I was Dorothy with the ruby slippers the whole time. Went from mainly cumming from oral to orgasming every which way when I have a partner open to listening to what I’m asking for. It’s good to be a multiorgasmic goddess ✨💁🏻‍♀️✨

[Do****]

The time I decided to let him know exactly what I was into and why. He had an open mind and was interested in some of the same things. Me opening up, opened doors.

[An****]

A guy once tied my hands while pounding me; up to that point, I had never had sex this way, but I discovered how much I love it, especially as I’m a pretty muscular guy. And the feeling of being controlled was amazingly erotic.

I would love to repeat that experience, perhaps this time as the top.

[eo****]

This girl want to eat me out and tbh I loved it never gonna ask someone to do it but I won’t refuse the offer lol. Gotta be honest honestly

[Timcornbread]

When I quit being quiet about what I wanted and expected while explaining what I was willing to give in return. That began the open dialogue we still engage in today. Won't be any other way.

[Re****]

Having conversations about what felt good, and how to improve. Addressing problems immediately.