Deleted Member Posted May 4 No pressure — just imagine the vibe, not the checklist. What’s your dream connection feel like?
Deleted Member Posted May 4 Author 8 minutes ago, ChameleonLady said: Every sliver of each other profoundly entwined, body soul and mind. That’s beautifully said. I love the idea of being so deeply connected. What does that kind of bond feel like to you?
Ch**** Posted May 4 Being cared for shouldn’t feel like being controlled—it should feel like being remembered.
Deleted Member Posted May 4 Some verbal.banter and willingness to be polite and friendly without being too launching at first. Work up to the verbal for play fella.Intelligence is sexy!
Deleted Member Posted May 4 Author 23 minutes ago, Cherryblossomgirl said: Being cared for shouldn’t feel like being controlled—it should feel like being remembered. That’s such a beautiful thought. How do you like to show care in a connection?
Deleted Member Posted May 4 Author 5 minutes ago, MissKittyKibbles80 said: Some verbal.banter and willingness to be polite and friendly without being too launching at first. Work up to the verbal for play fella.Intelligence is sexy! Totally agree—intelligence is a big part of the appeal. What’s the most intriguing thought you’ve had lately? 😉
Ch**** Posted May 4 I don't know how to do the reply thing, hehe, but I try to be thoughtful and remember what I've been told about. Active listening is important. But my problem has never been showing someone I care. I'm rather obvious.
Ha**** Posted May 4 A connection where I feel safe unraveling—where being soft, silly, strong, and submissive are all welcomed without question.
Deleted Member Posted May 5 7 hours ago, Beso_ said: Totally agree—intelligence is a big part of the appeal. What’s the most intriguing thought you’ve had lately? 😉 Well that I'm able to be who you see in all aspects in the bedroom and public the real real me at all times with someone, then I'm happiest.True vulnerability is easy to talk about but harder to practice.
Ro**** Posted May 5 Relaxed, open and easy to talk to. Without that, I can not truly feel like I can be myself. I'll admit I do hide behind a stoic mask until I feel it. To protect myself, not to be distant or hard to know. Why I prefer one on one or at least someone in the room who understands me
Deleted Member Posted May 5 Author Without saying words, just by looking at each other, the bodies and eyes do the speaking (and not necessarily always sexual language either).
eb**** Posted May 7 Open, easy to talk to. Communicate and pretty much get on each other's level. Hang out and enjoy spending time with one another while getting to know each other's needs.
Ch**** Posted May 9 Sunday at 02:54 PM, Beso_ said: That’s beautifully said. I love the idea of being so deeply connected. What does that kind of bond feel like to you? Synchronicity. I can feel him when he's screaming inside even when we're miles apart. Our relationship is healing past trauma. It started with his and, out of nowhere, mine spoke up and joined the conversation. As he yearns for my guidance I crave guiding him even further. While we are both strong in our own rights we are stronger together. As someone once said.. What really is the healing work is the relationship between people.
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