Here’s a quick question

[Co****]

What non-sexual kink activities bring you the strongest connection?

[Mr****]

Household responsibilities that both of you mutually hate doing.

[Mi****]

Laughter for me I think. Love a bit of banter when first chatting. Regardless of what the type of sex is the end goal.

[Asphx62]

Music.

[si****]

Serving the needs of my dominant person/s

[To****]

There is a fun game you and your partner ask each other questions about each other every time an answer is answered right you take off a piece of clothing, when it's answered wrong you put some back on, and eventually when you get down to nothing you can start groping and touching however the articles of clothing and what area's can and can't be touched are partners request

[Bi****]

Aftercare

[La****]

Literally conversations. Everything that is not on the surface level but deeper ones like your views in life, principles, discussions about arts of your and their interest or even everyday things such as what is going on with your life and how you navigate it. Any conversations that would reveal a lot about your true character would deepen the bond. When you and someone are connected emotionally (and if youre lucky, spiritually and intellectually too) whenever you would engage in intense intimate activities like kink/BDSM, it would becoming an explosive soul union experience.

[Ro****]

Communication

[ar****]

Eyegazing

[si****]

Serving and meeting the needs of my dominant/s through the little things.
Eg Taking care of the household, making/buying their favourite chocolate. Making coffee etc

[si****]

Without being asked or told

[Deleted Member]

Sadism 

[Ca****]

Being in littlespace while being cared about by my mommy domme or daddy dom

[Deleted Member]

The look, just the look, knowing what they are thinking and that you are both on the same wave length.

[Da****]

For me, it's giving massages 😊😊 it's definitely a kink of mine, but I just like to care about people

[sh****]

Kissing

[Deleted Member]

Service

[Ge****]

I would agree with @coffeewithsugar, directory followed by a good OTK spanking. The Dom hears the moaning of the Sub, who feels the closeness to the dom.

[Deleted Member]

Communication, intelligence, humour, someone I can bounce off mentally

[Da****]

@Altsub, you're totally correct. Add trust to that tho 🧐🤔

[ed****]

Love feeling hot breath on my body

[Deleted Member]

The mundane stuff… chats that’s are about nothing but are about something at the same time. Inside jokes. Teasing. I love the random check ins when you know they’re busy but still they find time— that makes the connection more genuine and real

[Deleted Member]

Watching a movie together cuddle up on the couch!! Great connection as I am a cuddle Junkie! Lol

[Deleted Member]

Banter