Public Cues

[Deleted Member]

What are some actions or words you use for your dom or sub to encourage your dynamics while out in public? Snaps, shoulder rubs, thigh grips, counting, etc.?

[wh****]

Consent.

[Ki****]

This is from past experience, not been able to play public in a while but is all about get int he partnees mind as a beautiful intrusive thought to indulge.
We used to have a endless innuendos and hints, followed by gentle touching, it was inebriating.

[wh****]

Really it’s rubbing her feet, listening to her day, helping her with groceries. My sub grants me herself when I’m with her

[No****]

Ohh I see this is going to be informative

[zu****]

Putting my hand on the small of her back of course. 💕

[Deleted Member]

I sat on her hand once and she began to finger me

[me****]

Id probably start to egg him on, grabbing or massaging the inner thigh when I can reach!

[Ba****]

If im feeling lazy I'll probably just flash her 😂. Or I might say "I'm not going to listen to shit you say today...time for a power dynamic change." Then wait for all the punishment to befall me when I innocently walk to the nearest restroom 🚺 lmao

[Deleted Member]

I’m rubbing a subs back or putting my hand on their shoulder😍

[su****]

Weve used hand signsls, but mostly tone of voice or a firm directional touch

[Wa****]

If you are misbehaving or being a brat, it's a raised eyebrow look. I will spank you in public if the look doesn't get the point across. If you are afraid or have anxiety, it's a hand hold. Other times, it's hand on your hip. I use words when actions aren't available or you need mentally to hear me.

[Sp****]

With an ex sub we just had a look, it was never discussed but we both knew exactly what it meant. It was just a way we made eye contact that meant something kinky was about to go down.

[da****]

My dom has a nickname he calls me, I know by his different tones of voice when he calls me a certain way that I better straighten up. Also facial features and physical redirection such as a firm touch or hand squeeze

[Ba****]

21 hours ago, danilynn said:

My dom has a nickname he calls me, I know by his different tones of voice when he calls me a certain way that I better straighten up. Also facial features and physical redirection such as a firm touch or hand squeeze

🫴💦❤️

[pe****]

I usually praise her as my "good girl" in a more raspy tone or other praises with a smirk and playful tone. Truly depends on the situation and the mood of the day. Also, touching certain areas like when we have sex is a big nonverbal indicator.

[cu****]

There is a code word, an internal joke.... Always works😄

[Ch****]

Usually, wearing a skirt or a dress is enough of an indicator easy access for whatever comes to mind

[sw****]

I would love to put my lips there

[Ai****]

I whisper in her ear "OK my pet"

[Eg****]

When we’re out in public and I’m feeling bratty I’ll act like a little *** - randomly poking him in the butt, ripping 90s era insults, literally demanding literal candy, endless South Park references. Or I’ll act like a cat - disinterested, hissy, affectionate until I’m quickly not, whatever >:3 is.

My Master will get handsy and bitey in public, and my distress pleases him more than I’d like 😑

[Ba****]

8 hours ago, EggsAndSteak said:

When we’re out in public and I’m feeling bratty I’ll act like a little *** - randomly poking him in the butt, ripping 90s era insults, literally demanding literal candy, endless South Park references. Or I’ll act like a cat - disinterested, hissy, affectionate until I’m quickly not, whatever >:3 is.

My Master will get handsy and bitey in public, and my distress pleases him more than I’d like 😑

Dayum ❤️🫴💦

[73****]

First, a finger in my mouth anytime outside of standard playtime means I’m to follow and find a way to extract a load. That finger can come from most anyone for me to understand the command. Second, rubbing the dimples at the base of my back above the belt line are crazy sensitive and quite obvious on my back. So a touch or rub is a sure sign to get my attention perked up.

[Li****]

It's the grip on the back of the neck, like He's leading me where we are walking

[Deleted Member]

Damn I’m jealous of all you guys ! Never had the pleasure of being in a relationship like this in public. Taking lots of notes