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Hey fellow brats, i need some help or maybe some words of encouragement...I met up with someone from here.....and it wasn't good...ive literally been sitting here crying.
We talked for a month and he seemed nice...but turns out he wasnt....he was rude. He said "you're a bit fatter and uglier in person, but you'll do i guess." To my face.
He even told me that being a bratty submissive is like acting like a child and doms who like that are ***philes.
My feelings are hurt and im emotional and I feel like I don't deserve happiness or love anymore.
Normally im a much stronger person than this, but it was the lack of emotion and empathy from him that really hurt.
What do I do? How do I move on from this?
bi****

bi****

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I think he was probably trying his best to be "mean and superior" to you, for effect. Nobody says stupid things like "you'll do i guess" in real life, so it must have been a pathetic attempt at being a dom. Just another dumb wannabee who might have been OK texting, but failed when it came to putting it in practice.

Your pictures are cute as heck, don't let stupid put you off dating.
Ro****

Ro****

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Hard to understand why someone would do that to such a cute little thing as you. Don’t give up and certainly don’t think you are not worthy, you will find a perfect guy I promise xx
Ma****

Ma****

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Oh sweetie you dodged a bullet. I understand that right now you're hurt and sad, but you deserve a man that's going to adore and worship you exactly as you are, physically and brat wise.
Claudia_Sky

Claudia_Sky

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Sorry you experienced that. It sounds like you've had a lucky escape from a moron. Elevate yourself by knowing your true worth, recognising his inhumanity (which you're doing) and taking time to be kind to yourself. Stay beautiful and try not to allow those words to touch you.

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A real dom is supposed to be compassionate and affectionate too, not a complete prick with nothing but disdain for you. Move on is my advice and find a dom who knows where the boundaries are and treats you respectfully
xS****

xS****

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Please don’t let this experience deter you from seeking a genuine connection with someone. Unfortunately there’s some proper miserable people out there and you were unlucky to come across one. You’re worthy of so much more <3
Me****

Me****

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In my country we say "he tries too hard to look straight". Ignore this guy and move on with your life. His life must be pretty miserable.
Ki****

Ki****

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First of all what ever it was this chump is way far from the definition of a REAL MAN ...you dear really dodged a bullet...as in life we live and learn ...you don't become a bit older and wiser after you have been young and make dumb mistakes....princess and bratty are just roles not you as a whole true person you deserve the respect due anyone else on this app or in real life...you are a pretty woman don't fall so in to let others trample your true person
He****

He****

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More than 8 Billion of us on this planet, chances are really good that you're going to run into more idiots than genuine friends. It's really hard to find someone to fit the mold that we imagine for ourselves.
But don't stop looking, it's all part of the journey.
You've learned from this experience and you'll learn from the next, and so on until you find your "happy ever after". And then you'll continue to learn new things together.
Don't let ONE idiots gaslighting shake your confidence.
REMEMBER THIS......No matter how attractive someone is, someone somewhere is Tired of their Shit!!!

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Say these 3 words..You Truly Matter!
se****

se****

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He's an asshole. Unfortunately this lifestyle seems to breed these types and there's not much that can be done. Over time you'll learn to spot them and their ways much earlier. It's ok to have your feelings be hurt and you absolutely deserve happiness and whatever else you want. You will find your happiness. You're smart, beautiful, intelligent and worthy.

His assessment of being bratty is way wrong as well. He's a fake there are a ton of them out there. Now pick yourself up, pull yourself together, and learn from it. The next person you give your energy to will thank you for it. You can do it.
He****

He****

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No one should talk to you in that way. We chat to people on this website and place a lot of trust in those people as we give up our deepest fantasies, we tell and show people on line who we really are. This is often a side of ourselves we have not shown to our family or our closest friends.

This guy is a complete jerk, shame on him. Respect is key to any meeting and if someone is not right for you then have the decency to let them down in a kind and decent way. 

Definitely report him.

Mr 🦊
 

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Try hitting gym 🏋️‍♀️ 💪
That's what guys usually do
aq****

aq****

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Report them and move on, you are a very attractive young lady x
wi****

wi****

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Girl trust me as a plus sized woman and a brat there is someone who'll love you for u

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5 minutes ago, Brooklyn-man said:
Try hitting gym 🏋️‍♀️ 💪
That's what guys usually do

You’re basically reinforcing what’s he’s said. If you don’t have any encouraging to add keep your comments to yourself 🙄

ge****

ge****

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At callmeprincessplz… baby girl Princess… damn him… he is not part of our community. Did you have referrals about him? May next time ask for references… you deserve to be loved for all you are… toss his memory in the toilet and start anew.

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2 minutes ago, halobreaker said:

You’re basically reinforcing what’s he’s said. If you don’t have any encouraging to add keep your comments to yourself 🙄

It's better to embrace truth and keep on moving. Illusion and sweet lies won't help. Everyone knows it. Cheers

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