Popular Post JC**** Posted June 8 Popular Post Idk what I am a sub or Dom I guess it depends on who I’m with what makes you so loyal to your doms?
No**** Posted June 8 My Dom is also my boyfriend. He is the love of my life. I trust him with my life
JC**** Posted June 8 Author So being honest I’m struggling with understanding that the loyalty of your in a relationship I wish the best for you.. it’s why my instincts change for someone I love I’ll be whatever they need me to be.. I guess I’m trying to figure out why are subs so attracted to there dom
Av**** Posted June 8 Speaking as a switch, I don’t think it’s as much attraction as it is expression. Some people are more comfortable expressing a submissive energy to sex, while others are more comfortable expressing a dom energy. Depending on who I’m with and what I want will vary in who takes the lead and why. Not a psych major, but you seem very demisexual. There’s no shame in letting the sexual energy you wish to express make sense to you in that moment.
JC**** Posted June 8 Author Also to be clear this is not male kink academy if I can get it women/men straight/trans/gay I honestly want to know I’m just trying to figure it out I don’t care how you identify I’m just looking to learn there’s a beautiful girl who could sit on my face until the end of time but I loved her and that won’t happen anymore so I’m trying to figure out is the sub Dom relationship love or something else?
No**** Posted June 8 Why is anyone attracted to anyone? I guess it applies to any relationship; not just a Dom/sub relationship
Sq**** Posted June 9 I’m a submissive but won’t submit to anyone it takes a lot of trust for me to give someone that power to allow me to surrender completely
ki**** Posted June 9 And to answer your other comment, people change and want different things, and that's ok . I guess you have to be willing to elaccept change can happen if you can't, then you probably should take a break and come back when you can
oi**** Posted June 9 5 minutes ago, JCHI12 said: Also to be clear this is not male kink academy if I can get it women/men straight/trans/gay I honestly want to know I’m just trying to figure it out I don’t care how you identify I’m just looking to learn there’s a beautiful girl who could sit on my face until the end of time but I loved her and that won’t happen anymore so I’m trying to figure out is the sub Dom relationship love or something else? You can love whoever you feel it for. Reciprocity is what didn't happen. Dynamics are just labels. Keep searching.
pr**** Posted June 9 Sounds like you’re a switch? Also depends on what type of Dom. Pleasure Dom or a Sadist Dom. Which one do you want to be and which one do you want?
Ne**** Posted June 9 If your Dom doesn’t care for you as much as you care for them they shouldn’t be your Dom. If they do care for you as much why wouldn’t you care as much for them…. It is a symbiotic relationship.
Da**** Posted June 9 34 minutes ago, pretty-praire94079 said: Sounds like you’re a switch? Also depends on what type of Dom. Pleasure Dom or a Sadist Dom. Which one do you want to be and which one do you want? What's the difference
On**** Posted June 9 Lol this throat is too funny if you don't know what you are you're a sub. Find yourself a good Dom to treat you like a good boy
Th**** Posted June 9 As a Domme, my subs are loyal as the connection you built is strong. You are there to nurture them while you have the control that you have been entrusted with. It is not about taking away the freedom and being selfish for your own needs. You build a beautiful trust and bond that they cherish.
pr**** Posted June 9 31 minutes ago, Daddiii said: What's the difference Pleasure Dom the end result is to bring pleasure to the sub, which brings the Dom pleasure. A sadist Dom individuals who enjoy inflicting *** or discomfort on others, and who typically take the dominant role in a relationship.
ch**** Posted June 10 Yess someone clarified that for me earlier I find it hard to clarify what I am what I am depends on the person and my connection with them I’m agreeable to both In the right circumstances
ch**** Posted June 10 Can I ask watch is a switch? Sorry I was just given a clear label for how I am so I’m trying to learn what is a switch?
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