No limits?

[Mi****]

Soooo… I’ve seen on some profiles on here that people list their limits as none. This is a red flag for me. Other people’s thoughts and opinions?

[theSir_ObservingU]

No limits is a huge red flag. It shows that they have no self awareness or experience.

[Deleted Member]

I bet if you pulled out a loaded gun or a knife they would suddenly find their limits...

Bullshiters have a false bravado to cover up their inexperience.

[0r****]

That’s not a red flag, that’s a red beach blanket that covers the whole beach

[Do****]

No limits could mean someone is naive, trolling ,inexperienced, or just a mentally disturbed person who wouldn't mind their limbs ,head, or family jewels chopped off by a psycho since they don't have a limit...

[lo****]

I mean, yeah, it’s a red flag for me, but maybe they’re just those wild and crazy “too weird to live, too rare to die” folks. And more power to them. We need a few pioneers willing to guzzle gasoline and juggle tomahawks blindfolded to remind the rest of us why we don’t do that.

[Pa****]

Definitely !!! And often the result of a Fake Dom encouraging them to agree to this

[sa****]

why are you even discussing this, if yhey give you pause dont talk or connect with them.

[Fe****]

I don’t speak to anybody that doesn’t have any limits on their profile. I will speak to them if they say that they’re still trying to figure them out which I believe is a fair point. But otherwise absolutely not that’s dangerous and not safe.

[Goodbicpl]

Total red flag.

[Th****]

Huge 🚩 no iffs ands or butts

[No****]

Big red flag. I didn’t know what my limits were to start with. If that is what you mean say that.

[jb****]

Most times they are being lazy. I need to update my own.

[Mi****]

14 minutes ago, Dominatrix_Ryu said:

No limits could mean someone is naive, trolling ,inexperienced, or just a mentally disturbed person who wouldn't mind their limbs ,head, or family jewels chopped off by a psycho since they don't have a limit...

Hahahah!! Love this

[ro****]

Cant agree more. No limits would suggest you could literally just not see them and they’d be happy. Fine with me 😂😂😂

[Mi****]

It tells me that if they're not willing to put enough effort into making their own profile then they're not going to put much effort into anything. I can understand people not wanting to put a profile picture but feeling things out on this helps us identify if this is someone pursuing. The extra effort says a lot to me .

[No****]

There is simply no such thing as "no limits". Any Mistress or Master knows that...

[he****]

MistressKayci you are 100% right. Period. Saying you have no limits is the biggest and easiest red flag to spot. The issue is people mistake being actually in the lifestyle with kinky sex or experimenting. People have confused this app for being fetlife and also think this app is like kinky tinder. Lack of experience and education about the lifestyle leads to protocols being broken or not even followed, *** of consent, and safety ***s. The other thing about this app is a lot of fake profiles, scammers, and even bots. This is why i encourage anyone interested in the lifestyle to go to a munch, event, class, and/or party and start learning from experienced members. I am so glad you made this post today. I have also noticed the crazy amount of people that have no limits on their profile.

[Se****]

It tells me that they dont know them *OR* more likely that they are new to BDSM or are not serious. A real Dominant will make sure of their limits, while a real sadistic will just inflict as much *** as they want.

[Wi****]

I have met a couple of people with no limits.
I asked about that and the ones I asked said that they had limits, they just weren't going to post them on their profile but they would discuss them in PM.

I agree that most are just inexperienced or trolling.

I see it the same way as people repeating what they have already posted in their profile.
Others just state the great things that they hope to find here.
I'm not certain, but I am reasonably sure that noone has limits on the good stuff.

[Sw****]

Besides the obvious , (which may not be so obvious) i don't want *** and *** listed on my pf. There are some open minded folks who's willing to try *most* things atleast once. Until directly confronted with a boundary it's hard for some to list their limits

[Yi****]

In the past I had a couple of girlfriends that would say you can do anything you want to me then a few weeks later I try something like sticking a finger in their butt and they go oh what are you doing I guess you can do anything as a big difference in opinion between certain people

[Se****]

4 minutes ago, Switch4Shawn said:

Besides the obvious , (which may not be so obvious) i don't want *** and *** listed on my pf. There are some open minded folks who's willing to try *most* things atleast once. Until directly confronted with a boundary it's hard for some to list their limits

That is an excellent point. Most people don't know they have a limit until they meet it. Or are willing to "give it a go" to see what happens. I could give examples....

[th****]

Sounds like something worthy of a red flag: perhaps not because they have no limits but because they either they don’t understand what is meant by limits or don’t care to explore their own boundaries. Or they’re a psychopath.

[Tw****]

A limit is a "known boundary". One that has previously been discovered by physical checks or accepted understanding. I personally find some plays can be a bit expensive for my tastes. But I also am aware that my limitations would depend entirely on how extreme that other persons taste was for it. Think about bondage? From simple leg restraints to full blown immobilisation and suspension. Not everyone likes all levels.