Curiosity killed the 😼

[Cosmo_gurl29020]

I have been sexually active for many yrs. Had only a handful of partners, ALL vanilla. Want to try new flavors, I have had this image of being blindfolded, put on my knees, my partner cuffing my hands behind my back then suck him off. Then he gets me on the bed cuffs a spreader bar on my legs and clips it up so my hips are lifted with my hands still cuffed. Is that to extreme to try 1st off??

[lo****]

Sexy

[Ja****]

Easy enough.

[Ba****]

it will depend on your partner, your trust level, and their experience level.

[Cosmo_gurl29020]

I'm ready to shatter the sexual box I'm in, and dip my toes in the ocean.

[Deleted Member]

If only there wasn’t an ocean between us! 😝

[Jw1106]

You would be fun to teach

[Jw1106]

Try anything you want first. Don't be afraid to explore at any rate you want

[Deleted Member]

No of course not I would like to see when your turned over to have a rope around your neck restricting your air flow. Soon you will be gasping for air. What do you think. Are you willing to try this.

[Sk****]

Definitely an easy introduction into bondage blowjob fantasy. Getting you on your back with a spreader bar is just icing on your cake love.

[Deleted Member]

Do it. Actually I'll do it

[Deleted Member]

Hello ropes are amazing

[Lu****]

It’s what you deserve. And you need to plan what’s next..? X

[Deleted Member]

I’m similar to you, and just starting out in this scene. Find someone you trust, and go for it. If your first scene is tamer than what you are imagining, you won’t feel fully satisfied and will need the itch scratching soon. X

[Lu****]

19 minutes ago, Lou-3645 said:

I’m similar to you, and just starting out in this scene. Find someone you trust, and go for it. If your first scene is tamer than what you are imagining, you won’t feel fully satisfied and will need the itch scratching soon. X

Lou - wise words. Sounds like you’re speaking from experience?
 

There’s always somebody prepared to help you scratch that itch … and the next one … ! 😉 

 

Play safe. Stay safe. 
 

Luke x

[da****]

No ur just being who you are

[jo****]

I would say you do need to trust the person for that more than a vanilla partner.

[jo****]

There isn’t nothing to be ashamed of for wanting to try for the first time

[Ta****]

Kinda mild, if you ask me, so not too extreme to try as long as it’s not a total stranger. Then again, maybe that’s your next kink accomplishment. 😂

[GreyBondage]

Great starting point, like the others said trust the person first!

[Ti****]

You've been given so great advice already. 1. Trust in the person is priority. 2. Know your limits and share them.
This is relatively tame and short scene. Not a bad start.

[Deleted Member]

I feel same I think it’s more energy but bdsm scene mostyperformance

[jo****]

To me, it’s all about consent. Having the conversation before the scene so that you both get what you want. And if there’s impact play or even if there’s not, aftercare is a necessity otherwise you’re just a sadist.

[SC****]

Perfect

[Deleted Member]

It’s not too much and I’m down for it if you are