5 Sex Toy Gifts to Get Naughty With This Holiday Season

No matter how or what specific holiday you celebrate, gift-giving is a good idea any time of year. Writer Kayla Lords gives her pick of sex toy gifts that will really heat things up.

 

Heavy-duty massager

When I say “heavy duty” I mean something like the Original Magic Wand (aka the Hitachi). There are others out there - the Doxy Massager comes to mind. The Magic Wand is now available in a rechargeable option, so you’re not stuck plugged into the wall (not that I mind that part). What do you get with this kinky gift? Try forced orgasms, genital torture, and sweet pain for those who love it. Even better, you can try different attachments to go with it.
 

Cuffs and collar make for excellent sex toy gifts

Getting the handcuffs or collars offered on adult toys websites that cater to everyone is good for learning, but at a certain point, you’re going to want something that’s meant to stand up to rougher play. There are plenty of options out there. It’s best to buy from a store that caters to the kinky. Kink Craft has some great DIY options, or you can buy colourful sets from them. The bondage cuffs and BDSM collar I use in scenes are from Bear Things.

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Don't forget some good lube

Okay, so maybe this is a stocking stuffer, but good lube is often forgotten in all our kinky fun. Whether you want to try anal sex, give fisting a try, or just need to make that pussy a little wetter, the thing that separates a good time from an Oh-my-God-get-that-thing-away-from-me moment is your lube. There are a ton of lubes on the market, and it’s a matter of trying different kinds until you find the one you like. I like The Butters by LTASEX - it’s creamy and can be used in other kinky fun like bootblacking and leather care.

Are you surprising your partner with any sex toy gifts this year?

Up your bondage game with a real rope

If you’ve been talking about taking your bondage from scarves or handcuffs and bondage tape play to an actual bondage rope, this is a great time to get your hands on the real thing. Of course, before you tie up your partner, learn as much as you can. Two Knotty Boys is a great place to start. And for rope, I like My Nawashi, a Shibari rope store on Etsy.

Cock rings

Assuming at least one of your partners has a cock, a cock ring isn’t a bad idea when it comes to sex toy gifts. And no, this isn’t just for submissive men. My Daddy Dom loves to wear one when we fuck. Depending on the type you choose, you can each feel sensations or not. We like the Tyler by Svakom because he gets feel-good vibes, and so do I.

There are so many adult toys to try with your kinky lover. This just scratches the surface. If it looks fun to you, and you think your partner will get off on it, buy it, wrap it up in a pretty bow, and then watch the look on their face when they open up your sex toy gifts this holiday season. If you're a bit low on funds, try some DIY BDSM for your sex toy gifts.
 

Kayla Lords is a freelance writer, sex blogger, and a masochistic babygirl living the 24/7 D/s life. 

Have you ever received some kinky sex toy gifts? Are you planning on giving some to your partner? Let us know in the Fetish.com forum.

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