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Find Your Fit
Top Features
| Average build | Premium | VIP | |
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See Who Spanked You (Women-First Feature) Curious who's into your vibe? Get the full list of everyone who's shown interest. Women are always free to explore to feel safe and empowered. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Send Spanks (Women-First Feature) Women are in charge here, with more spanks (300-500) to send and show real interest.
Men still stand their chance with an upgrade (see details above). | 5 | 50 | 100 |
Make The First Move (Women-First Feature) Women start leading the conversation with more chances (10 first messages). Men get to choose the right one(s) – see details above. | ❌ | 25 | 50 |
Go Ad-Free Browse without distractions. Just pure, uninterrupted playtime. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Stay Invisible Lurk all you want. No one knows you were there. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Show First in Search Results Be the first face other kinksters see. Dominance has its perks. | 200 points | 200 points | 1 per week |
Send Kinky Gifts Surprise them with a cheeky gift. One tap and you're already on their mind. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Match with the BDSM Test Get matched based on your test results. Compatibility? Nailed it. | 2 | ☑️ | ☑️ |
See Your Visitors Find out who’s been eyeing your profile... and maybe Spank back? | 5 in last 24h. | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Search by Who’s Online Set your filter to find out who’s around and ready to chat right now. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Stand Out & Connect More
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Tell Everyone What You're Looking For Post a Kinky Ad and spell it out your desires. The right people will come running. | 3 | 5 | 10 |
Get In Touch With New Kinksters (Women-First Feature) Make the first move with a spicy first impression. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Highlight Your Messages Cut through the noise and get your message noticed. | 150 points | 150 points | 1 per week |
Open Chat Room Start the convo, stir the pot. Create a public space for kinksters to come together and share their thoughts. | ☑️ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Like Photos and Comments Show your interest with a quick tap. Let them know you’re feeling it. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Go Deeper and Play
| Average build | Premium | VIP | |
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Visit Profiles Anonymously Hide your tracks when checking others out. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
See Adult Content Verified? Get access to all the spicy material: photos, videos, and more. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Read Receipts No more waiting in the dark. Know exactly when your message hits home. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Challenges & Games Get seen, get playful, and earn points while you're at it. Fame tastes better kinky. | ☑️ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Magazine and BDSM Courses Feed your curiosity and grow your kink IQ. From real-life stories to expert-led courses, there’s always more to explore. | ☑️ <br> <font size="1"> Courses require separate fee </font> | ☑️ <br> <font size="1"> Courses require separate fee </font> | ☑️ <br> <font size="1"> Courses require separate fee </font> |
#SSC
| Average build | Premium | VIP | |
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Profile Verification Verify your profile to show you're the real deal — and get more action for it. | ☑️ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Message & Comment Filters Choose who gets to connect and who doesn’t. | ☑️ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Human Support Talk to our human team when you need a hand. | ☑️ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Block Kinksters No drama, no stress. Block anyone who’s not your vibe. | ☑️ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Private Photo Gallery Got something special? Share it only with kinksters who’ve earned your trust. | ☑️ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
More Features
| Average build | Premium | VIP | |
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See Who Liked Your Photos Get the full list of kinksters showing your pics some love, all in one place. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Save Filter Settings Keep your favorite search filters locked in for faster, hotter browsing. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Customise Your Search Results See the best first: sort by VIPs, with photo, by last login, etc. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Add Friends Stay close to your people. Keep trusted kinksters just a tap away. | 2000 | 2000 | 2000 |
Add Favorites Found someone unforgettable? Save them — you’ll want to come back. | 5 | 1000 | 2000 |
Join Live Chat See who’s in the room, jump into the convo, or send a sneaky Whisper. Your call. | ☑️ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Start Live Stream Upload videos like everyone else —or upgrade and go live to show your kink in real time. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Are They Likely to Reply? Check their reply stats and find out if they’re worth the Spank. | ❌ | ☑️ | ☑️ |
Host Events & Share Places Plan kinky meetups, recommend your favorite hangouts, and bring the community together. | ☑️ | ☑️ | ☑️ |