🔥 What’s Your ‘Polite Kink’ — the one you hint at on a first date but don’t fully admit until clothes are already on the floor?

[Me****]

Let’s be real — we all have that one turn-on that’s too spicy for small talk but too juicy to ignore. Maybe it’s being praised, being ***d, being watched, or calling someone “sir” and meaning it.

Drop yours 👇
Bonus points if you’ve accidentally exposed it too early.

[Gr****]

The only one I can think of is that my neck, back, and shoulders are erogenous zones, and having them kissed and lightly scratched turns me into a squirming, yowling pile of happy. I haven't orgasmed from it yet, but with enough time and attention I suspect that I could.

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The only reason I don't explicitly mention it on my profile is that it's more sexual than kinky, and I've yet learn a snappy word or short phrase to sum it up.

[Br****]

Definitely being praised or taken care of in the little things. Lol I put off that "independent, I can take care of myself" vibe because it's just who I've always been. But when a guy praises/compliments me I turn to mush and can't even keep eye contact. Or when he does little things like pull out my chair, puts his hand on my back possessively to guide me while walking... That sort of thing.

[Un****]

I have a service kink. I'm a pleasure dom. I get off on service, and it's not just sexual service.

[Do****]

I love to be praised, and cater to, with a polite tone and a firm gentle touch ,that is get my body oozing 🫶🏽

[To****]

When i hear yes, Ma'am or any variation of it..... my mind immediately says good boy or good girl, but my face apparently says it too... 🤭

[na****]

1 hour ago, Brea1608 said:

Definitely being praised or taken care of in the little things. Lol I put off that "independent, I can take care of myself" vibe because it's just who I've always been. But when a guy praises/compliments me I turn to mush and can't even keep eye contact. Or when he does little things like pull out my chair, puts his hand on my back possessively to guide me while walking... That sort of thing.

Understandable. When you have to be the backbone daily, when someone takes charge, it melts you

[Ma****]

I am respectful and remain tactful, and normally dont bring it up unless a little more playful banter happens. Then, I mention i like to play a bit rougher than others and I always get the same lines. But, it does leave the topic very open to discussion should things progress.

[Bi****]

Dominant or pushy girls I enjoy the feeling of a girl knowing what she wants rather than expecting me to read her mind and someone who enjoys a bit of rough play like angry sex or something like that

[Mr****]

I like it when it puts the lotion on its skin. I really like it when it puts the lotion in the basket. And when she's laughing to the point she's almost in tears because she gets my humor, then I get really excited.

[tr****]

I hint at public spaces like bathroom stalls or hidden park benches, usually saying I can keep quiet, Im flexible, and I can make something quick

[Thawk]

Mine would have to be shabarri or breathe play

[Pu****]

I would say public play....knowing that we want each other so much that we don't care where we are...we just want to touch and please each other .....that I share more openly then sharing that my nipples are a hot spot 😋

[Ze****]

I always bring attention to how big I am all around (6'8") and subs usually lose it realizing all the ways I can dominate them.

[an****]

That I'm submissive and slightly bratty. Light teasing while still being very feminine. May throw a "yes sir" in there somewhere, or a "please do"

[Ha****]

Asking them if they like ice cream… after thrn tell me their favorite, then my response always comes with a “I don’t like anything vanilla” and a wink smirk 😏

[ba****]

Sometimes when guys ask me for a sexy pic I’ll ignore them playfully until they press the issue. When they do I’ll say “how bad do you want it?”. It’s surprising how quickly they fold sometimes 🤭. If they take the bait, I ask them to “beg” for it. Usually opens the door pretty wide after that lol.

[lo****]

Totally into feet, sock, pits and underwear. I love male musk!

[JJ****]

i really like, after a good session, when both are tired, me as dom..
exhausted, she as sub.. come multiple times.. after orgasm control..
both wasted in the bed, and she wakes me up suckimg me, and with a brat face, asks me if
" is it, ok to suck on my lollipop".. that actually drives me on, second round... 😈

[pr****]

I have a thing for Santa. I need at least 1 Santa a year.

[la****]

When she tells me what to do - I'll do a quiet moan or say yes ma'am with a seductive tone. If she's a Domme, that's usually just enough to open the door to the subject. If she's not, it's still enough to talk about things in terms of turn-ons and I'll start light, like it's a turn on when my partner takes control before laying out the kinkier stuff like being a masochist.

[Sh****]

Saying Daddy with the right person and being a Good Girl, gets me every time. Orgasm control, talking about how much I love bruises, power dynamics.

[Pl****]

@ShamelessVixen I also love cum/orgasm control... and "Good Girl or Boy" is usually my polite kink. Depending on if I'm feeling Dominant or submissive. If I feel submissive and the vibe is right, Ill usually test the waters with a "Ma'am or Sir"

[FS****]

Is much as I love a rough session,it's so sexy when someone does a slow tease. Restrained, maybe a little temp play slow wandering hands, tongue, and lips on my inner thighs and a lot of other places... makes me incredibly needy.

[su****]

Saying Mommy while being restrained showing true submission.