What do you look for in a pleasure dom?

[Re****]

As a pleasure dom, I'm curious to know what sorts of things people look for in a pleasure dom 🤔 What do you want out of your time together?

[Ki****]

To c*m so many times

[Deleted Member]

Presence of authority to allow me to willingly submit to the pleasure you're offering/giving. I can orgasm on my own, with a toy, and even with someone who is fumbling - my body will react naturally regardless of how I get there. From you I want to know that I am safe, to be reassured there is intimacy, to crave being with you again, that you want to care for me as much as I do for you. I hope that answers your question.💋

[Da****]

I want to learn more about being a pleasure dom, so I'm curious about what people want from that, too!

[Mr****]

Someone who can guide me to my limits, and even safely beyond, then be there to guide me back down and make me want to explore again, rather than be made to.

[Et****]

22 minutes ago, RopeLamb said:

Presence of authority to allow me to willingly submit to the pleasure you're offering/giving. I can orgasm on my own, with a toy, and even with someone who is fumbling - my body will react naturally regardless of how I get there. From you I want to know that I am safe, to be reassured there is intimacy, to crave being with you again, that you want to care for me as much as I do for you. I hope that answers your question.💋

Yeah that sums it up perfectly. That's what I want my subs to feel

[Jo****]

I reward my lil subs with stimulation, I enjoy it as much as they do, legs shaking, fluid dripping down their inner thigh, squirting, I can accommodate

[We****]

3 hours ago, RopeLamb said:

Presence of authority to allow me to willingly submit to the pleasure you're offering/giving. I can orgasm on my own, with a toy, and even with someone who is fumbling - my body will react naturally regardless of how I get there. From you I want to know that I am safe, to be reassured there is intimacy, to crave being with you again, that you want to care for me as much as I do for you. I hope that answers your question.💋

This is insightful feedback for us all to reflect on.

[Re****]

4 hours ago, RopeLamb said:

Presence of authority to allow me to willingly submit to the pleasure you're offering/giving. I can orgasm on my own, with a toy, and even with someone who is fumbling - my body will react naturally regardless of how I get there. From you I want to know that I am safe, to be reassured there is intimacy, to crave being with you again, that you want to care for me as much as I do for you. I hope that answers your question.💋

It does! Thank you. I'm doing it right then 😏 lol

[Re****]

4 hours ago, MrSwitchySub said:

Someone who can guide me to my limits, and even safely beyond, then be there to guide me back down and make me want to explore again, rather than be made to.

Also an indicator I'm doing it right 🥰 Thanks for the input!

[Ma****]

I yet to experience a sub position but yearn for.

[za****]

Watching u

[Deleted Member]

Thank you gentlemen, I'm glad I could be of help on this matter.

[Tr****]

I've never been with a pleasure Dom before or any Dom for that matter because I'm new to the lifestyle

[Tr****]

Watching who

[fl****]

My experience as a pleasure dom? I expect her to enjoy her pleasure before i enjoy mine. Let her shake like crazy lol i love it!

[G0****]

Excellent question. Curious of us Kinksters and replies

[Sa****]

Safety to fully let go and give in to the sensations and moment. Make her feel like she's the most important thing in that moment, talk her through the orgasms, when she's at her breaking point, demand just one more....

[Re****]

56 minutes ago, floridaboybyron said:

My experience as a pleasure dom? I expect her to enjoy her pleasure before i enjoy mine. Let her shake like crazy lol i love it!

T H I S

[ne****]

Seems a strange question, your calling yourself a pleasure dom, but your asking what you should know. Everyone is different, so it depends on your play partner it's not rocket science, good communication and a honest open discussion. Will inform you

[No****]

A pleasure dom clearly shows how much the subs pleasure turns him on. Reassuring, guiding to and through your breaking points. I want my pleasure dom to communicate how much he loves to see me shiver, tremble and ultimately cum from his actions.

[We****]

A pleasure dom will put your pleasure before theirs but equally they get pleasure from seeing you happy even if it is happy tears behind a gag 😅

[We****]

4 hours ago, WetAura said:

A pleasure dom will put your pleasure before theirs but equally they get pleasure from seeing you happy even if it is happy tears behind a gag 😅

An insightful observation.

[Re****]

August 29, newton-abbot23446 said:

Seems a strange question, your calling yourself a pleasure dom, but your asking what you should know. Everyone is different, so it depends on your play partner it's not rocket science, good communication and a honest open discussion. Will inform you

Not necessarily what I should know but looking to see what different aspects of it different people look for.

[se****]

I want to feel like it’s their desire to do whatever the activity is and I just happen to get pleasure from it - as opposed to service I suppose. They’re always still in full control.