Ms_Multifaceted Posted September 18, 2020 Posted September 18, 2020 Is there a kinky specific term for people who get off on irritating others? I despise this as an element of kink, it's surely not actually a kink, is it, but it is kind of sadistic. But there's no consent and it's entirely unsolicited. There are too many people purposefully being annoying and despite being totally chilled and accepting of most kinks, this one I can't be ok with. 😂😢 Any advice on how to spot their infuriating games before you get caught in one? It's just rude.
Deleted Member Posted September 18, 2020 Posted September 18, 2020 (edited) Hi, I understand where you're coming from, there's a place for banter but antagonistic goading is not something that amuses me especially if you've set a boundary with that person. I find it rude, disrespectful and annoying af. I will block if it ever becomes too much but mostly ignore- if they don't get a reaction they'll stop etc and essentially peoples gonna ***p and that's just life 🙄😊😉🔥 Edit add: re spotting them 🤔🤔🤔 watch out for early signs of their Tomfoolery but they clever little fuckers and weedle their way in before its too late, so I'm interested to hear other thoughts on the matter!!! Edited September 18, 2020 by Deleted Member To add superfluous advice re: spotting
Deleted Member Posted September 18, 2020 Posted September 18, 2020 Yeah the term is "dickheads" and there is no place for it yet sadly it happens too much . The online world is full of these fools who can easily hide behind a screen and there is not a lot you can do in afraid. Just block or ignore once you realise they fall into this category
Deleted Member Posted September 18, 2020 Posted September 18, 2020 6 minutes ago, Donnykinkster said: Yeah the term is "dickheads" and there is no place for it yet sadly it happens too much . The online world is full of these fools who can easily hide behind a screen and there is not a lot you can do in afraid. Just block or ignore once you realise they fall into this category Little bitta cat n mouse is fun.... then block!!!
Deleted Member Posted September 18, 2020 Posted September 18, 2020 (edited) 13 minutes ago, Firewitch said: Little bitta cat n mouse is fun.... then block!!! Agreed, but only for some. It can really upset/frustrate others especially if it becomes spiteful. Enough sometimes to push otherwise decent human beings out of the community. Edited September 18, 2020 by Deleted Member Spelling
Deleted Member Posted September 18, 2020 Posted September 18, 2020 2 minutes ago, Donnykinkster said: Agreed, but only for some. It can really upset/frustrate others especially if it becomes spiteful. Enough sometimes to push otherwise decent human beings out of the community. I think this lifestyle requires a high level of emotional resilience and if you "let the bastards get you down" you in the wrong place imo.... too harsh?? Meh🤷♀️ 💋
Deleted Member Posted September 18, 2020 Posted September 18, 2020 Just now, Firewitch said: I think this lifestyle requires a high level of emotional resilience I can't argue with that.
Deleted Member Posted September 18, 2020 Posted September 18, 2020 1 minute ago, Donnykinkster said: I can't argue with that. I love it when I'm right!!!
Deleted Member Posted September 18, 2020 Posted September 18, 2020 1 minute ago, Firewitch said: I love it when I'm right!!! Typical lass 😂😂
Deleted Member Posted September 18, 2020 Posted September 18, 2020 Just now, Donnykinkster said: Typical lass 😂😂 🤪
ey**** Posted September 18, 2020 Posted September 18, 2020 yep - bratting - which can be fun in the right set up - but in the wrong set up it's someone trying to annoy you so you'll give them what they want (sounds like manipulation)
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