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What Makes You Feel Sexy?

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Hezzair

Hezzair

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Is it internal? Is it external? is it attitude? is it the clothes? is it the mood? the music? the time of day? 

I commented to a guy on here that he was sexy, and he said he didn't feel that way. It took me aback, because he is totally hot. The fact that this killer hot guy did not realize how smoking sexy he is, or could not FEEL sexy, made me feel upset for him. 

That's what made me ponder this question.

I know when *I* feel sexy, it is more about my attitude than anything else. It is when I look in the mirror and I say, yep, damn, I look good, and you all WISH you could have a piece of this. 

I think that attitude can make even people who are considered "less attractive" look "more attractive" to other people because confidence is sexy. 

I know that once I got past giving a shit what other people thought about me, I started having a lot more fun in life, and people started finding me a lot more attractive. 

What do you think?

Ta****

Ta****

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Not sexy but confident.... when I smile and they smile back. Then I know its game on lol

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Sexy is when you feel wanted, or when you desire someone. Sexy is when you look at or touch yourself and feel aroused. Sexy is that delicious blur of staying bare all day with someone, wanting to see and to be seen, to devour someone and to be devoured.. sexy is no longer the pinupgirl or the six packs :)
Daedeluss

Daedeluss

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"The fact that this killer hot guy did not realize how smoking sexy he is, or could not FEEL sexy, made me feel upset for him. "
The vital thing here is "to you"

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Been working hard at the gym this year and I honestly didn’t realize I’d accomplished something until a week ago when beautiful young girl slid in my DMs and complemented me. Since then I’ve felt different. Flipped a switch. So sometimes people just need some kind of validation I guess.

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The Vibe!
I feel sexy if I got the right vibe. If you watching someone’s eyes and you know this person is into the same vibe, feeling, love or aroused as you are. Then you are in harmony and that’s amazing sexy
JackJonesHull

JackJonesHull

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It is the recognition, the affirmation, that someone else sees me as sexy.
Th****

Th****

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For me it's a validation from others. Seeing her enjoying me. If she tells me and so on

I don't really feel sexy if I don't get some form of validation from outside
Ka****

Ka****

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For me, it comes from within. Someone can tell me I'm sexy all day long, but if I don't feel it, that ain't gonna help.
Th****

Th****

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2 minutes ago, Karan_1 said:
For me, it comes from within. Someone can tell me I'm sexy all day long, but if I don't feel it, that ain't gonna help.

Yeah I get that. Ofc you gotta feel it yourself but for me outside validation overwrites myself if Its said enough

af****

af****

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Its usually who im with. That intent and desire. That's what really gets me going. Whether its what they say, do, or just the look in their eye, thats what makes me feel sexy.
Je****

Je****

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I completely agree. I used to think that I wasn’t sexy or pretty or any number of things. But once I changed the way I saw myself, I gain more confidence in myself and was able to break out of my own shell. It was very freeing.
Bl****

Bl****

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Honestly I think the world would be a better place if people had the opportunity to be who they are in a safe place. Like this one.
Bl****

Bl****

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Because the social scene looks like an elaborate S&M scene without the consent or fun right now
Je****

Je****

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1 minute ago, Bluebird411 said:
Honestly I think the world would be a better place if people had the opportunity to be who they are in a safe place. Like this one.

I agree with you on that one. I’m much happier when I don’t have to hide.

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