A physical craving for it?

[Co****]

I have always wondered this as someone who has yet to be spanked (and has no real physical experience in the kinkier side of life) but... I have noticed that on some days I kind of feel a level of physical discomfort when I particularly crave it, and I just wanted to ask if that's normal for other people into kink.

Do spankers hands itch or tingle? Do spankees feel a tingle or shift uncomfortably as I embarassingly have? I know doms and subs can get bratty or irritated having needs not met but really, is feeling it physically as well pretty normal?

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[Deleted Member]

Hey! As someone else who has yet to be spanked but has encountered cravings o deal with this as well! I’m very hypersexual and it is one of those things that occur when I fantasize about this particular kink, hope this helped 😊

[Co****]

44 minutes ago, K4Y said:

Hey! As someone else who has yet to be spanked but has encountered cravings o deal with this as well! I’m very hypersexual and it is one of those things that occur when I fantasize about this particular kink, hope this helped 😊

It does, it's truly a weird phenomenon for me lmao

[Ta****]

I had to go a year basically without regular spankings after living with having almost daily spanking because me and my partner moved—- yes you’ll crave it.

[Da****]

I have been spanked. Multiple times. And yes. The cravings are real. My guy reads me well. Picks up on my mood shift. He does what I call dom bratting. He will pick at mistakes. Small ones, nothing that would hurt my feelings. He will give me warnings knowing I will push back. It’s how he gauges what I’m needing. The brattier I get he knows how many spanks and how hard I’ll need to get my mood reset.

[he****]

Yes craving spanking is real

[Co****]

It's good to know that it's common☠️

[Co****]

4 hours ago, DaddysChosenOne said:

I have been spanked. Multiple times. And yes. The cravings are real. My guy reads me well. Picks up on my mood shift. He does what I call dom bratting. He will pick at mistakes. Small ones, nothing that would hurt my feelings. He will give me warnings knowing I will push back. It’s how he gauges what I’m needing. The brattier I get he knows how many spanks and how hard I’ll need to get my mood reset.

Sounds like a beautiful dynamic

[Co****]

4 hours ago, Tasteful-Tboy said:

I had to go a year basically without regular spankings after living with having almost daily spanking because me and my partner moved—- yes you’ll crave it.

Do you feel like that consistency disappearing changed anything about you? Like maybe having a shorter temper or anything like that?

[Mari482]

Girl I know what you mean. I have never been touched or had sex but I have been wanting to be spanked.