Confused

[ha****]

He is hiding something guaranteed or he would be proud to do so

[Deleted Member]

There’s nothing in the culture or the dynamic that states or claims that having a daddy also doubles as having a social media manager to flaunt you so that you can be desired by other men. If you are mine, you are mine. And you would be happy to do so or else perhaps I need to question whether or not your love and loyalties are rooted in the proper places for this dynamic in this relationship. Are you in this because you want to be adored on social media because you can do that without a daddy. And as far as I was aware, this lifestyle in this dynamic has been in play long before social media existed. What did they do back then?

[Deleted Member]

He's clearly hiding something or is still looking for something and your not his one, cause if I had a little committed to me I'd either just be off here completely or id change up my profile and everything to show that I've found my person and I'm locked in with them. I don't think it would be wrong to give him a bit of an ultimatum here. You shouldn't have to suffer while he's most likely just chatting to other littles etc with them thinking he's single and has no little

[Ro****]

Are you in a monogamous or poly dynamic? If you are in mono, I'd say he's hiding something. If you are poly that would make it difficult to meet others in some male minds. In mine mind as a female sub in a poly d/s world, it would actually show a level of maturity for him to post you. This would also show no matter who he sees, you are an established person in his life. It would also count vetting points towards his dom potential as well.

[fr****]

Never assume , but either he enjoys his privacy or has an established relationship

[Deleted Member]

Definitely isn't a true daddy

[Deleted Member]

He's not the one for you...a daddy should want to show off his little girl, depending on your dynamics...maybe he's worried ppl will not agree with his kinks and he actually adores you but doesn't want to be seen as a kink guy...you no what some ppl can be like if they find out you like a certain kink! Ask him the reason, no pressure, explain it would make you really happy or find another way for him to show you your his girl...a bracelet or a collar knecklace! Maybe that will help or not, hope it works out!

[dr****]

Wow the amount of thirsty ass dudes on here who think that they should be the daddy is gross and I promise an unwelcomed response to this post also all the people who are suddenly experts on why one would not have done it the truth is none of you know cuddos to the people who point that out and have some different answers but I believe maybe if it has been a long term relationship with some waves and turmoil (all relationships have them) maybe what is needed is a calm clear headed conversation to know why it is not being done and maybe open up the possibility by asking questions instead of reading people’s comments and getting upset maybe tell him your proud of all he is doing and you see the changes he is making and gently roll into how you would like to be posted…. Maybe if the conversation is calm he may believe that it is something that you are ready for but one things for certain you attract more bees with honey then you do vinegar so being the sweet little lady you are maybe be sweet about it maybe come with that energy and I promise the conversation would go better than you think but as in all matters of relationships you have to be willing to communicate about it in a non combative way….

[Deleted Member]

It would definitely raise questions for me. Every kink site we’ve ever been on, my Daddy links our profiles. Typically if he’s messaging someone he finds a way to bring me up to make sure that everyone is on the same page.
Is it a privacy issue??? If he hides his face and name in his profiles but you show your face and use your name, maybe he’s worried he will be found out by association??? I’m not sure… 🤔

[Ou****]

He's got a dynamic already and you're a secret.

[Ma****]

Pretty much hun

[bl****]

Sounds like he’s hiding you, or has something else going on. If he’s on a site, you should be included in everything. Communication is the only way relationships last in any capacity

[ed****]

There is also the possibility that he noticed your ad on here looking for daddies to date, so thought that you weren't serious about him.

[we****]

That sucks i joined this after my little got me interested i wanted her to be part of this but now we're no longer sadly

[Am****]

From experience I can tell you it’s one of two reasons. You’re either his bit on the side, so he is keeping you a secret from everyone. Or he’s extremely possessive of you and doesn’t want anyone to see you. The possessive kind is usually very insecure about themselves and can’t handle the people in their life telling them that you are too good for them.
Either way, it's toxic and you deserve better. Don't waste your time.
If he isn't proud to show you off to the people in his world, I can promise you that someone else will come along who will.

[Ul****]

Probably nothing. Some people aren't really that invested in a digital life, and some people don't like to share. Don't overthink it.

[Ka****]

Maybe he just doesn’t want you in here. You are his and he doesn’t want to share you with the world.Some men aren’t into displaying their partners. Do you have his permission to be here? I know I had to get permission and He monitors my interactions but he isn’t here. He doesn’t like these places so refuses to join in. But he understands my need for friends.

[Ho****]

Nevermind, Daddy fixed it... I may have been being a bit of a brat about it 😼🫢

[bo****]

He probably has issues with the way some people might see or interact with him if he lets people know he's a daddy to a little. Many sites have haters that don't understand roleplay or age play and just assume the people involved ar perverts and ***philes. So basically other people have ruined things for him/you.

[le****]

Shit I would

[Deleted Member]

In this type of site you can't allow your emotions to get the better of you. People come and go. Being upset because he won't do that is unnecessary stress.

[an****]

It could be because of some family members would cause alot of problems for him and yalls relationship. Or maybe its a comfort thing. You should have a calm open talk with him about it find out the reason. If hes afraid then reassure him that youre not going anywhere gently guide him to the comfort zone.

[sh****]

Before I respond can I ask if the relationship is new?

[Deleted Member]

Evaluate your need for this kink (public ownership) to be fulfilled vs their boundary (staying private). I struggled with being in a 'secret' relationship, it didn't feel good, but I was able to understand the boundary and myself a bit more. It means something, but what that is only the two of you will understand through communication. Good luck!!!

[Bi****]

He not a true Dom or daddy he only wants it behind closed doors must be embarrassed or worried what others would think...I true Dom don't carry himself that way...we proud of what we built and what is ours 💯