Disowning out of spite

[An****]

He's not a good Dom leave n don't be afraid to explore noone can get u banned from this lifestyle

[Ro****]

He cannot "ban you from the lifestyle." The BDSM community is not a single, governing body with universal en***ment power. Local communities have their own rules, and while someone might be banned from a specific venue for a consent *** (which he is committing, not you), no single person can blacklist you from the entire global kink community.

This is manipulation, not true domination. Healthy BDSM dynamics are built on Consent, Communication, and Boundaries. Using the dynamic you want against you as a 'mental weapon,' which includes threats of social exile, is a form of emotional manipulation. This person is not acting like a healthy Dom.

[Ta****]

I have told him to take his collar and shove it where th sun don't shine. I am hurting because I do love him but I don't deserve the ab**se.

[An****]

Good luck it's gotta be a hard thing to do