Do you enjoy edging?

[Ca****]

question for you all, do you enjoy being edged or edging someone? having the control to get them right to the edge of an orgasm but then preventing it is such a great way of showing a women that im in control. i like to do it a few times so that when i finally allow that explosive release its so intense for them.

what do.you guys think?

[Deleted Member]

I love edging. A day off work and relax and edge for hour to a nice big load 🙂

[Deleted Member]

*hours

[Wr****]

It's definitely an effective tool I'll utilize in my role. It isn't for everyone and it's purely a preference so it's not something that should be engaged with if it wasn't discussed or request. Even length of duration or the finale can affect someone differently. You don't want to overstimulate someone that doesn't process it well.

[Deleted Member]

Absolutely! I love edging when I’m inside her. Since I’m also a pleasure Dom, I love to control it for her sometimes. Whether it be edging until they ask if she can cum or another time doing ***d orgasms. If you do it right and with encouragement, she will really enjoy it.

[PL****]

I love to be edged but, for me I have the issue of finding someone with the patience and self control to edge and deprive that orgasm for very long periods of time (4 hours or more). The issue is that I have had this limit pushed quite far and Im always seeking those who can push it further. The stimulation that occurs is addictive and the intensity of orgasms that follow increase the longer deprivation for me.

[PL****]

Just now, PLEASEandTEASEme said:

I love to be edged but, for me I have the issue of finding someone with the patience and self control to edge and deprive that orgasm for very long periods of time (4 hours or more). The issue is that I have had this limit pushed quite far and Im always seeking those who can push it further. The stimulation that occurs is addictive and the intensity of orgasms that follow increase the longer deprivation for me.

*the longer the deprivation occurs for me.

[So****]

Thanks for questioning. Well, for me as a Switcher I enjoy having control over my partner‘s orgasms. He loves it being edged.
On the opposite, I do not like being edged, because my orgasms are like steps to higher levels, one by one. If I am interrupted, I only reach low levels which are not satisfying enough.

[no****]

As everything else in D/s relationship is very fun and I love to get one as long on the end is finished with ruined or full milked with some POT.

[MrLeatherCrotchBoots]

Love edge play, goes well with restrictive leather outfits

[Ro****]

Love it but find it so hard to do well! I any kinky situation I am always too close to cumming!

[Deleted Member]

3 hours ago, RoseSatin said:

Love it but find it so hard to do well! I any kinky situation I am always too close to cumming!

It helps when you have someone that knows body.

[Ez****]

My Favorite, I love to get taken to that place where ill do anything for you

[lo****]

I LOVE it!! Although, I struggle to edge myself and typically need some help with it, haha

[Ez****]

You struggle meaning idt feels so good you just cum, I can help, my ex took me a place I was tied spred eagle4hours of edging just blow8ng on it and presume would ooze, let me know if you want me to finigh

[ju****]

I've only had a little bit of experience with it, I did enjoy what I experienced however. It's definitely something I'm interested in trying it more

[Deleted Member]

I love a day off and edge for hours.

Both playing with my prostate

Brings an amazing ending

[mu****]

Looking to edge with another cock now

[id****]

I love edging myself, I would love to edge someone else

[melissa4use]

Edging is my thing, both ways and especially as a sub. For me it's the soft touch i love. To edge a woman, i love variations, soft, hard, harder, whatever she wants. But in the ends she must cum, if she wants. The end for me...is up to her.

[Sa****]

I love edging, however too much and I become a total gooner girl

[Deleted Member]

Edging can be incredibly powerful, but the key difference is whether it’s about control for its own sake, or control in service of the other person’s experience. For many people, being edged feels intense and intimate because it requires trust, communication, and attunement. When it’s consensual and negotiated, it can heighten anticipation, deepen surrender, and make release feel earned rather than taken.

 

That said, not everyone experiences edging the same way. Some find it delicious and grounding, others find it frustrating or emotionally uncomfortable if it’s not clearly framed and agreed beforehand. What tends to matter most isn’t the technique, but the intention: are you listening to your partner’s responses, checking in, and making sure they feel held rather than managed?

 

When edging works well, it’s less about proving control and more about shared focus, patience, and mutual enjoyment. Done poorly, it can feel performative or one-sided. Like most kink, it lives or dies on consent, communication, and care.

[subjoe101]

Absolutely love it! I enjoy it better than sex. My mind turns to mush and goes blank.

[Yo****]

Ive honestly never tried it but always have wanted to... if any female wants to help my try it out lol

[Bi****]

I love doing it to my wife but takes too long and too much for me to get to my edge for it to be enjoyable for me.