Big guys

[Ty****]

That is a great topic to bring up, most of the time guys..especially this that are Doms or in the kink world do not bring this up. Good for you for doing so! And as you can see there are many women that enjoy bigger guys.

[Yi****]

Women seem less concerned about a man's looks and more interested in his contribution to society and her.

[Nu****]

There are women out there who prefer a bigger man.I feel like a bigger guy gives me a sense of protection. I feel safe with him. Don't give up looking. You're a MAN and that's what a woman wants.

[ch****]

Yes yes there is, there is a huge demographic of women and men who absolutely think you are attractive and sexy and cute and handsome and all of those things and will think and say them out loud and proud to anyone they can get to hear it. And that’s exactly what you deserve.

[Te****]

I've been 50 kg/110 lbs overweight at one point in my life, so I don't discriminate. I was still the same person, no matter how much I weighed. I still remember how shocked I was once I'd lost enough weight to be what people seem to think of as a "normal" human shape. They actually started to look at me like a human being, instead of first staring at me with disgust and then quickly turning their eyes away. But nothing in my personality had changed. I was still me, but my weight had disguised my humanity from them, apparently--they only saw a grotesquely fat person. That was a horrible experience. So I *never* treat overweight people with scorn. 

I'd say weight is a problem only when it gets in the way of the actual sex--when you can't reach places, or do different positions. I've been with people of all shapes and sizes, and this really sweet and lovely big guy was wonderful to make love with, but... we could only do it doggystyle because of his belly. He wanted me to ride him because he got out of breath easily, but I kept falling off because his belly would make me roll off him. Couldn't do missionary because his belly would make him roll off me. So, doggystyle it was. So that's the only real complication.

Women care far more about your personality than they do about your looks. Ignore what other guys say about chads and all that other bullshit, and listen to what women are actually saying. We do get attracted to you for your personality before anything else. We whack off to smutty romance novels and fanfic because the medium of text gets us into the heads of the *characters.* We like them because those stories are about specific persons, and not just flesh slapping against flesh. So, reading smut about your favourite rockstar is like having sex with your boyfriend--you know him already. We want to know the guy's personality, basically, and if the personality is awful, no good looks will ever compensate for that. I personally tend to shy away from conventionally handsome guys, because my instant reaction to a guy like that is "oh no, another asshole full of himself." I'd much rather go out with a skinny geek or a bear or a guy with a dad bod.  

So, don't despair. There are lovely women out there for you. BBWs espcially are really lovely and non-judgemental; they're some of the nicest and warmest people you'll ever meet. 

Edited Monday at 11:34 PM by TerryBaroque
Clarified one section and fixed typo

[ChocolateRopeBunny]

Oh absolutely. I am of the demographic that loves big guys.