How to deal with loneliness if you are a kitten?

[Deleted Member]

My kind friends, if you are a pet who has a very high level of physical affection need but you are lonely, what would you do to make yourself feel better? Please really need strategies.

[Te****]

Seems to me you just need some heavy petting...

[Deleted Member]

Self care and full body attention helps, looking at yourself and feeling present. Giving your body the love it deserves

[Deleted Member]

Self care and full body attention are a great way to feel present for yourself. Taking time to enjoy your own body and mind

[Gr****]

A few things that can help a bit. I cup of tea with some cookies (chocolate perhaps) rap up with a warm blanket and surrounded yourself with some big fluffy pillows. Play some gentle music or natural sounds like rain or birds chirping. I know it won’t solve the problem but it may help make it manageable. ❤️‍🩹

[do****]

i like to make a cozy nest of blankets/pillows/stuffies and get in my gear. since i’m a pup i’ll bring my chew toy with me, and i like to give myself some praise! over time “i’m a doggy, i’m a good doggy” melts into arfs and woofs.. it can be hard to get into subspace alone sometimes but getting comfortable physically helps me a lot

[Li****]

Praise audios help me. I have a bf now and he gave me a hello kitty build a bear with his voice. But im sure you can find some online too

[su****]

Weighted blanket, heating pad, or even a heavier stuffed *** you can warm in the dryer. Warm drinks like cinnamon tea or nutmeg milk help too. Baths, cozy textures, and soft lighting can really ease the ache. And if it’s possible adopting a rescue pet can change everything.

[Deleted Member]

In the morning that kitty felt so depressed and even negative. She passed out three times in one day and zero productive energy. Also zero appetite for this kitten. That loneliness is real impacting her life… badly

[La****]

Hi. Sorry for the loneliness youre experiencing. It happens to the best of us and sometimes it could be unbearable. Short term reliefs: pampering yourself with things that would ease your little/pet side would help. Take a bubble bath, playing with (non-sexual) toys, drawing book, take yourself for an ice cream etc. Hug your fav stuffy friends and have some good affirmations towards yourself. Long term reliefs: join a community group: arts, *** shelter, social movements etc. These will help you with the sense of belonging and physical needs. Good luck. And please know that you are loved and worthy. Hang in there.

[Im****]

My heart goes out to you. I struggle with similar unfulfilled needs.

Self care does help, sometimes. But for me, putting effort into setting myself up to have those needs fulfilled in the future brings me a longer lasting comfort.

While sometimes (usually?) I am not successful, I find comfort in actively building a future for myself where I can be more fulfilled. 🙂

[ba****]

You need a loving ana caring master to cuddle

[Deleted Member]

18 minutes ago, bananamuffinislove said:

You need a loving ana caring master to cuddle

That’s just my dream. A dream that could never come true…

[Deleted Member]

I just bite someone now and then, and they give me some nip...

[Deleted Member]

1 hour ago, Julien_Grey said:

I just bite someone now and then, and they give me some nip...

That’s cute 🥰!

[Ga****]

Maybe a small mountain of plushies?
Even better if they get gifted to you, cause then you can get the feeling from the person each time you hug one :3

[ho****]

Stuff ***s help me sleep. That’s when I would miss it the most. Sometimes their clothes. In addition, if they went on a trip and gifted me flowers before leaving, it would make me suffer less lol

[Deleted Member]

Update on this kitten: have one small gingerbread man toy and a normal pillow, squeezing them in arms; snuggled in blanket curled up tightly. Can’t lying on my cat bed because it makes me want to cry. Kitten is really not very protective during this day… but at least ate and slept well.

[Deleted Member]

5 hours ago, ACowcat said:

That’s cute 🥰!

Shiiit, I always wanted to be cute...
All this time I've had to settle for Charismatic, Sexy and Insane.

[To****]

You could do what my cat used to do when she wasn’t happy - *** down the ducted heater vents.

Seriously. Communication. If Master doesn’t improve, get a new one.

[Deleted Member]

I’m the kind of kitten who really needs cuddles and gentle touch. I can lie quietly next to my owner and not disturb them at all. But everyone there is so far away. I appreciate all the support and encouragement. 💪💪

[Deleted Member]

Ignore the gooners.
I’m not a “kitten” or a “pet”. However, I do require decent amount of attention attention and a lot of physical affection (both sexual and non sexual) when in a relationship.
I got out of a 6 year relationship about a year ago at this point. What I’ve been doing is pouring all that energy into myself. Setting goals and achieving them like working out, advancing my career, trying new things like pickleball, and I’m going on a cruise in June. Do things for yourself, it’s not good to be codependent; both for yourself as a person, and for your future relationship so I recommend doing things that will make you happy regardless of anyone else and if you meet someone along the way then good for you!

[Th****]

If you are feeling depressed, especially to the point where you are not being productive, experiencing diminished appetite, and noticing an overall decrease in your quality of life, it may be wise to contact a mental health professional. You might look for one who specializes in, or, is at least trained in BDSM and Kink. I hope you find what you’re looking for ♥️

[Deleted Member]

My advice comes to late. But when I had to go somewhere for days, I recorded a couple of CDs. All she had to do was to listen to my voice. Some relaxed her, one was a special surprise talk. She grabbed some of my used t shirts or hooddies and closed her eyes and followed her special audiobook. We also used text messages and she got a to do list for the evening. It always worked.

[Deleted Member]

Self-love hun, as a woman with a kitten kink, give yourself pets, give yourself time, and allow yourself to enjoy the little things you enjoy as a kitten,whether it be wearing a collar or a collar with a bell/tag on it. A leash, etc. Learn to allow attention from yourself to yourself because at the end of the day, you should be happy and if telling yourself that you were a good girl today, because you got al the things and stuff you needed done makes you happy then do it. If giving your self.chin scratches and head pets or running a brush, in your hair while humming, singing, listening to a particular songs ect, makes you happy and fills that need for attention moment/feeling that isn't otherwise available then do it what ever the thing/things are that makes you feel less lonely and provides affection for yourself is a good thing hun. I wear my ***r and give it a soft controlled tug, I run my fingers along the underside of my chin, or playfully in my hair absentmindely, I tell myself good girl or good job because self care matters and allowing yourself attention for just yourself can do wonders for not feeling lonely. Hopefully, this helps. If you ever want to just chat, hit me up 😉. I'm always up for good conversation.