Hard to date working nights

[he****]

Not sure if too many people are shift workers but sometimes I don’t get home till three or 4am. How do people do that and try and make connections when I’m fucking buggered when i get home

[Jo****]

Still trying to figure it out. I work 7pm 7am. Looking for actual connections or even just trying to find some kinky to fuck on is difficult. Especially do to sleeping patterns.

[Bi****]

Yeah I know the struggle all to well working graveyard 11pm-7am I try to make time for people between 7am-11pm or pre-plan so when I get off I go over to their place and honestly just snuggle and sleep together and maybe do stuff in the afternoon

[ey****]

there's folk I know who shift work - so they tend to meet or go to stuff on the nights they're not working, or doing some of the many day time events.  Most people can work round others' jobs 

[Deleted Member]

I work midnight-8a, and have found that its really depends on how/when you sleep. I stay up til 3-4p so for me breakfast/brunch meet ups are best. Or, I can try to crash early and meet them at 9-10p if I have the night off

[da****]

I work 10pm to 6:30am very hard

[Deleted Member]

That's why you find a night owl to play with who's already up by the time you get home

[Ku****]

I was able to talk to my boss and go from noon to 8:30pm to four noon to 10:30pm so I could have 3 day weekends.

[ChocolateRopeBunny]

I work a rotating split shift that consists of day and night shifts. What I do is tell people about my schedule pretty early on and show that I'm open to meeting on my off days. I communicate my schedule very clearly and I wait to see what they do with that information. I find a lot either don't listen or don't care so they weed themselves out. Others I ensure to stick to the plan and then ensure they have my attention during our outting. I'm not saying it's easy by any means.