What do you think? pt.2 Profiles

[Ni****]

Hi lovely people,

I’ve got another question I’ve been considering and I’d love to hear your thoughts.

What actually attracts you to someone’s profile?

For me, it’s rarely the pictures — that’s usually the last thing I look at. I’m much more drawn to what someone writes. Their bio, their interests, limits, what they’re looking for, even their test results. It gives me a sense of who they are and, more importantly, whether there’s something there to connect with or even just start a conversation from.

I often find profiles with little to no bio, or just “message me if you’re interested,” don’t really draw me in. It makes me wonder what kind of conversation would follow if there’s nothing to engage with to begin with.

So I’m really curious — what is it that catches your attention when you look at someone’s profile, and why?

Is it photos, writing, energy, or something else entirely?

As always, feel free to reply with your thoughts down below  <3

[Deleted Member]

For me to be interested, you must first be interesting. Whether it’s charisma, character, opportunity, resources, etc.

Gotta be way more interesting in your propositions & solicitations than “Hey, hru” or “you’re so beautiful” because, honestly? That does nothing for me.

And saying something like “just ask” - that puts the onus on me to find something interesting to ask you? Hard pass.

[Do****]

Yeah I totally get that, for me the person has to be interesting like a sense of personality, rather then send nudes first. I see a lot of people that have dull bios because they’re shy or don’t know what to write but are fantastic people.

But also mainly people that can also hold a conversation or start one 🙏🏼

[Deleted Member]

50 minutes ago, violetsoblue said:

For me to be interested, you must first be interesting. Whether it’s charisma, character, opportunity, resources, etc.

Gotta be way more interesting in your propositions & solicitations than “Hey, hru” or “you’re so beautiful” because, honestly? That does nothing for me.

And saying something like “just ask” - that puts the onus on me to find something interesting to ask you? Hard pass.

Yes exactly this!

[Deleted Member]

Hmmm. Never thought of that. I definitely read the intro..and say something more then "hey" or "what's up" pictures occasionally

[Ba****]

If a guy's profile has little or nothing on it, I'm not interested. My thought process is; if they couldn't take the time fill it out, why would I take the time to talk with them?
Their bio, test, limits, kinks, and Sexuality are what interests me.

[DJ****]

Photos energy subject depth of the photos the body and face but also the mind and what my mind perceives from said photos and energy..

[ca****]

Im the same. As much as you can get from a profile, but a sense of what they are about and who they are.
The pictures help after the fact, but having something to say goes a long way.

[Ne****]

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[esotericBrat]

What attracts me? Their photo, a topic or comment they've posted, location/age..

Then I analyse what they've said in their profiles (if anything) and use deductive reasoning if 'important'/relevant information appears to be intentionally "left out" of it.

I haven't messaged anyone though because unfortunately, I've simply not felt that level of intrigue. A lot of people don't have anything to say, no depth offered, and therefore conversations with said people are of little interest. 🤷

[ca****]

Sadly, it's been the truth. Ive gotten quite a few messages about people wanting me to watch them jack off.. even had someone offer to pay me.
I enjoy kink, but there are people around who would like the whole package (kink, intimacy, conversations).
Show me that I should take the time to respond.. no text language, shots me they you read my profile. Have something worthy to talk about.
Maybe im asking for too much 😆

[Hi****]

The photo is what draws me to the profile. Physical attraction is just as important to me as chemistry/ mutual interests. The bio, interests and overall profile determines whether I'm interested or not.

[Ki****]

Aren't you in an explorative mood these days.

What attracts me to a profile... Nothing and everything! like a movie once said.

Jokes a side i have a radius, chit chats world wide friendship to some extent nation and so on. Past that point sure a picture of some sort grasp the attention! With that I mean doesn't need to be erotic to say, who or what you are!
But if you come for the looks you stay for the bio, the vibes.
A good description is priceless but please don't say too much!
Damn... today I'm about movies, bios are like a trailer you want me to say give me more is a lure leave something for the untold pick my curiosity.

[dw****]

It's pretty easy to break down. Girls fall for what they hear, or read. Guys go for what they see. That's why women wear makeup and guys tell lies.

[hot-springs206194]

We judge harshly on appearance.
Since the majority of men are hiding behind lots of facial hair, ball caps and sunglasses, it is easy for us to flip right by.
If you look like you live under a bridge, we flip right by. If you stick your tongue out, we flip right by.
It is easy to tell which of you care about how you look.
If you don’t care how you look, we don’t care about you.
Catch a shave. Comb your hair if you have any. Smile.

[Di****]

For me it’s location, I want to find someone reasonably close and when I do, then explore our interests through chat to see if our kinks align well enough to try it out

[00****]

I look at their wants limits and orientation and the pictures are the bonus or the icing on the cake

[La****]

The same way you see it.

I take a look into someone’s profile and the way they take it seriously. Completing your profile doesn’t take more than 5 minutes. If anything, its there to help you to attract someone you really wants and helps other people to get to know you better and see you more than just your kink identity.
Abandoning such simple matters like this pretty much tell you abt a person and how they seek a connection.

Second I will take a look into their pictures and how they present it.
First impression matters. And your profile is the first impression for online presence. So the little time you give to think abt it would gave you benefit more than not.

I take my role seriously and respect the potential partner seriously. So I approach it with the same manner.

[brattamerglasgow]

Honestly I look at there special interesti know I have a type and that type is Autistic stubborn and short

[Deleted Member]

The majority of conversations on the internet are superficial and agonizingly simple. For Americans, it's often because we can't read or write proficiently to begin with. Men must cast a much wider net in order to get any engagement online and communicating "uniquely" at that level of volume is a struggle for the literate, let alone the average person

[Deleted Member]

As far as profiles? All it takes is similar interests and attractive features