Name of "Style"

[ch****]

Hi everyone! I'll try not to be explicit with this.

Is there a name for someone, specifically a dom, into ***d orgasm until their sub makes degrading (often never kept, so far) promises to either stop cumming (if Im leaning into overstimulation) or start (if leaning into edging). Promises are a big one, as is role play, but I'm generally centered on causing lots of orgasms.

The feeling of causing back to back orgasms in a beautiful woman is like an unmatched high for me. Maybe its ego, I'm not sure. But light fisting, tied up Hitachi and gspot massage, hog-tied and casually just lingered into oblivion? Love it.

I do okay with bondage, definitely not skilled enough to be called a rigger, but I know basic knots and safety (and most importantly, my own limits) so I lean on leather harnesses for that.

What else....

Sessions lean heavily on mind games, ("I'm going to X," "Promise to do Y with Z" etc). They're strictly games, of course and rarely followed up on (never without mutual enthusiasm).

But, the big thing is Im generally not into ***, beyond moderate nipple play. I can cause some ***, and its fine, but it doesnt have the spark that causing pleasure has for me.

For outside the bedroom, Im a huge fan of subtle/casual signals during the day. I'm particularly fond of being called daddy during the day.

Is that a pleasure dom? I'm semi-intereated in ddlg (I love spoiling), but the deeper age regression bit isnt my thing.

Anyway, sorry if I was too explicit in spots, just wanted to accurately describe the kink.

[jj****]

This sounds in line with what I’d expect from BDSM.

[Ca****]

Sound alike a pleasure Dom to me. They're obsessed with pleasing the woman and her cumming as much as possible. Just don't forget any aftercare

[ch****]

47 minutes ago, Calistra said:

Sound alike a pleasure Dom to me. They're obsessed with pleasing the woman and her cumming as much as possible. Just don't forget any aftercare

Of course not! Very important!

[Th****]

That is me too, pleasure dom is how I present myself if I have to put an etiquette

[Br****]

I’m a pleasure dom and this sounds exactly like a pleasure dom to me. I’ve recently got into pleasure denial and we’ve been in the land of multiple orgasms for her for a long time now so I would say this is spot on, along with a bit of the dd/lg dynamic you describe.

We use a points based system to monitor and control her bratting. The trouble is she likes being punished, especially by the Professional Dom I have outsourced major punishments to.

52 stripes is her record from the weekend before last. We’re seeing him next weekend as well ;)

[Bk****]

I particularly resonate with the unmatched high you mention in paragraph one.