If rules aren’t rules

[Pu****]

Are you someone who follows traditional relationship rules, or do you prefer making your own? If you could design your perfect relationship with zero societal rules, what would it actually look like?

[Lo****]

He’s my “trad wife”, I bring the mon@y😉
I can do whatever whenever I want and he simply he doesn’t. That isn’t necessarily societal compatible 😋

[Hu****]

I saw something that said, “I want a community that redesigns relationships” and that is what I’m building: but I’m in charge because I’m great seeing societal issues and manages people. Not in charge in a man way, but a soft, intentional way.

[li****]

I've always been into an 'older woman' whether that's physically or mentally (Gillian Anderson) But I love a woman who speaks their own mind, like I do, who can be whole with someone without being "whole" as they are whole themselves, don't need anyone. Oh also, someone who.. is themselves

[Lo****]

7 hours ago, HummingB said:

I saw something that said, “I want a community that redesigns relationships” and that is what I’m building: but I’m in charge because I’m great seeing societal issues and manages people. Not in charge in a man way, but a soft, intentional way.

I surely sounded like a man didn’t mean to😂🙈
Good you wrote “soft/intentional way”, that’s what makes the difference. Thx for posting 🫶🏻

[ey****]

it depends on where you view the traditional relationship rules... even in vanilla a lot is changed and a lot of relationships differ 

[Ba****]

Ideally i see myself as sort of the boyfriend of a couple in a homo-romantic marriage
Being the third wheel in a structure that was build with it in mind, you know a tricycle not a bicycle
Which is a unicorn on the level of „surely out there somewhere but i never heard of someone even claiming to have seen it“ and not even societies that have legal polygynous marriages don’t have a template for this so even copying rules that comply with traditional standards would be part of making my own ruleset

[Ff****]

The crux of the issue is that while we are all individuals in the modern sense of the world.... a traditional dynamic encompasses male-female dynamic even though homsexual relationships have been around they have really be accepted in a traditional sphere.in the modern sense its what we as individuals allow ourselves to accept ,and becuase we can be what ever we dream up to be there are numerous types of dynamics that we can attest to in the Gen Z era. The real issue here is to understand relationships are a partnership where give and take is key and individuality needs to be held in check.

[Go****]

The same as now, cause if it doesn't feel right to do most likely* I won't. If it's the right thing to do, even against the law, I'ma do it. I got a record to prove it (ex best friend snitched). I don't give af what some judge somewhere that's never lived my life says.

[St****]

My primary and I are polyamorous and kinky. We make our own rules as we go along. The most important thing that keeps us so close is clear concise communication, always. ☺️

[so****]

I'm married, we are both very open about our interests and will sleep with other people. It never effects how we feel about each other, it makes our relationship stronger.