Surveillance fetish: Anyone else fantasise about being watched like this?

[Pa****]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and wanted to see if anyone else's brain works this way.

I've got cameras in every room of my house: kitchen, lounge, bedroom, bathroom, shower, all live, all the time. Most days it's just me existing, no idea anyone's watching, no performance, just my actual life on a feed somewhere.

The fantasy that really gets me is the moment that stops being true. I'm in the shower, soaping myself, water running, completely unaware, and then someone speaks. Turns my temperature down. Tells me a cold shower's what I'm getting and just watches me take it.

Or I'm in bed, hard, hand already moving, and someone's been watching before I even knew it started. Told to move the covers so I'm fully visible. Told to stop and wait. Told I don't get to finish, maybe not at all, just kept there, frustrated, because that's what they've decided.

Getting dressed in the morning and someone else deciding what I'm allowed to wear, or whether I'm allowed anything. No privacy anywhere in the house, every room, every moment; someone else has full access to my life and a say in what I do with it.

I think what does it for me is the loss of control mixed with being genuinely, unglamorously seen. Not a curated clip, just real, unaware, ordinary moments that suddenly become someone else's to direct.

Anyone else have this kind of surveillance/control thing? I'd be curious what a dominant who's into being that kind of Surveiller gets out of it from their side; is it the access, the control, the not-knowing-when-they'll-speak part? Genuinely curious how this lands for people wired the other way round.

Edited 10 hours ago by Patrickhehim

[kevan]

I think the access a d control could be great

[Sp****]

Ask Garrett Langley.