Curious about fetish for married/taken men !

[mg****]

Hi Everyone ! Over the course of sometime I have come across a few kinksters who have fetish for married or taken men. I am curious to understand and know more about this. What is the fascination ? Why married men and not unattached single men ? Is this the husband equivalent of a hotwife scenario ?

[oh****]

The kink for me is you're choosing me over the person you chose to spend your life with. She doesn't know, maybe it's spiteful, I like being used by men and when their taken it just shows me they don't get it how they like it at home. Makes me feel better. It's like indirect praise for me.

[to****]

1 of many reasons they are usually more cautious, calm,and they go the fuck home when they're done with you they don't want to be caught by wifey works out great I live alone don't want anyone hanging around I'm a loner and like it that way 😉

[Th****]

That already happened to me, with a woman I was sleeping with here and there while I was married, she lost a lot of interest when I got divorced

Idk. The kink or the adrenaline or something

[Lo****]

It's usually either the taboo of being caught/breaking the "rules", or, it's ENM and it's due to the mental idea that "this is a proven sexual partner". The fact that you're married is the biological indicator of a good partner, something to be desired.

[in****]

I have known some people with this kink, in some cases known intimately. For some, it’s the taboo. For others, it feels emotionally safer, they or the other person is less likely to catch feelings. Sometimes it’s an ego boost or an achievement to have someone violate their vows or whatever to be with them. There are likely a gazillion other motives, but those are ones I’ve encountered often.

[mg****]

Being on the receiving end of it, it’s kinda very hot and exciting 🥵

Liking the different perspectives here ! Appreciate all your comments.

[Ma****]

As a married man, I’ve found it harder to find a woman that is comfortable having fun with a married man.