Ear Worship: How Rare Is It, and How Do Dominants Actually Feel About It?

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Ear worship is probably my most specific kink. I’m drawn to particular ear shapes, details and styles, and my interest is focused on worshipping rather than receiving.
For me, it becomes more powerful within a Dominant/submissive dynamic: being kept close, directed, made to wait, or ordered to remain in position while giving attention exactly where she wants it. It feels less like a random physical act and more like a mixture of sensory play, body worship, obedience and psychological surrender.
I know it is fairly niche, but I’m interested in hearing from people with genuine experience rather than relying on assumptions or questionable statistics.
For Dominant women: does this kind of very specific body-part worship appeal to you, or does it feel too narrow and centred on the submissive’s fixation? What makes it feel like genuine service rather than someone simply using a Dominant to fulfil a fetish?
For submissives with similarly specific interests: have you found that being direct about one unusual kink improves the quality of connections, or does it reduce your chances too much?
And for anyone who has explored ear play: is the appeal mainly physical sensation, intimacy, ASMR, control, aesthetics, ritual—or something else entirely?
I’m not looking for offers or private arrangements through this thread. I’m genuinely interested in how people experience the dynamic and where they think the balance lies between personal fixation, mutual enjoyment and actual submission.