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Hi everyone, I’m fairly new to the Fet app and to the whole BDSM culture. I see myself as a switch but I’m growing more and more willing to explore my sub side. Curious to know what motivates an experienced domme to choose an inexperienced sub?

I’m not a Domme. I’m a dom. Sometimes teaching and learning with someone new to this lifestyle can be fun and rewarding for both parties.

Sometimes it’s not about experience but how well you meld, connect, vibe and compatibility with each other! It’s an exchange of power and creating something together. It’s why I tell any submissive it’s better to know what kind of submissive you are and the style dynamic you love! Google does have a lot of information you can search an enjoy.

Thank you so much for alls your inputs

The look of surprise wonder and hint of fright is delicious

18 hours ago, Asmodeus48 said:

Curious to know what motivates an experienced domme to choose an inexperienced sub?

It depends slightly where you're going with this question - but, 

I've found most Domme's don't care too much about the experience levels of the sub, there are pros and cons to inexperienced and experienced which will vary on perspective, but in the general attitude, vibe and daresay 'connection'.  I remember a lot of my first times, and some of these were a big deal for the Domme we'd shared that together - but - it was because she had wanted that moment with me, rather than any appeal to me being new. 

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