Sometimes It’s the Conversation

[OD****]

I think people underestimate how intimate a good conversation can be.

I’m not talking about the basic “what you into?” conversation either 😂

I mean when it’s late, neither one of you is really ready to go to sleep, and somehow the conversation keeps getting deeper.

One minute you’re laughing about something stupid. Next minute you’re talking about things you normally keep to yourself.

That’s the part I like.

When somebody gets comfortable enough to stop performing.

No trying to impress each other. No forcing some sexual energy because of where we met. Just two grown people actually enjoying each other.

And yeah… attraction matters.

But I’ve learned that a woman can become a whole lot more attractive to me just by the way her mind works. Her humor. The little attitude she gives me. The way she tells a story. Even the way she challenges something I said.

That can do more for me than somebody immediately telling me everything they want done to them.

Maybe I’m getting older 😂

Or maybe I just appreciate the buildup more now.

That moment when you both know there’s some attraction there, but neither one of you is rushing it.

You just keep talking.

Keep laughing.

Keep learning each other.

And somewhere in the middle of all that, the conversation changes.

Not because anybody ***d it.

It just does.

So I’m curious… ladies, what makes you lose track of time talking to a man?

Because that kind of connection is what I’d actually like to find more of around here.

[As****]

I completely agree with that

[Pr****]

Sometimes if you have the same sense of humor, mine tends to run dirty and sarcastic. Usually it's catching a play on words or something. I genuinely enjoy learning so if I find someone who is passionate about a topic and it comes across the time just disappears.

[Ba****]

When you catch the same emotional “wave” but also important be at one level of understanding. And this combination is rare to find
Otherwise it’s become boring and very predictable