Hair pulling

[Da****]

There is a right way and a WRONG way to pull someone’s hair. The right way will unleash the kinky, lustful *** inside your partner. The wrong way will turn them off and even hurt them.

My personal way - is to put my hand behind the beck , brush it up the head , grab as much as I can and pull so that it doesn’t just pull the hair but also ***s the eyes and head to lookup.

So question for you all - people with curly hair, pony tails , short hair and silky thin hair - how to you like to get it done ? And how your Dominants do it which turns you on immensely ?

[Ki****]

I flip their hair up from behind while I caress their neck as my hand runs through their hair bounding it around my hand I pull until I find their breaking point as long as they are into it and comfortable it happens naturally most times knowing them and the little things goes along way

[To****]

For me, hair pulling is one of those things where less *** and more control usually works better

I don’t think there’s one technique that works for everyone. Hair length, texture and even how sensitive someone’s scalp is can change everything😆

What I find more important is the intention behind it. Sometimes I’m not really trying to pull the hair as much as I’m using it to guide the head and create a certain moment

That’s probably the key then. Not just grabbing the ends or pulling randomly, but having a proper hold and knowing what you’re doing with it😏

And like most things, the reaction tells you more than any technique ever will😏

[Th****]

One technique I know works, at the back of the head, close to roots just above the neck, weave your fingers up and along the neck, and softly but firmly grabbing the hair.
The finger tips need to have soft gentle contact with the skin.
This has worked for me for many years

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[Da****]

22 minutes ago, The_Gentleman2026 said:

One technique I know works, at the back of the head, close to roots just above the neck, weave your fingers up and along the neck, and softly but firmly grabbing the hair.
The finger tips need to have soft gentle contact with the skin.
This has worked for me for many years

Hmm. Now I am not sure how it would work for someone with curly hair .

[Sv****]

I have long hair and if I want to make the guy happy, i make a high braid with ties on each side. Easy to grab, hold and use to guide me without me spending an hour afterwards trying to untangle it all. Also if someone grabs and pulls just a bit of hair they can tear some out. Id say it’s a win-win

[Da****]

2 minutes ago, Sve25 said:

I have long hair and if I want to make the guy happy, i make a high braid with ties on each side. Easy to grab, hold and use to guide me without me spending an hour afterwards trying to untangle it all. Also if someone grabs and pulls just a bit of hair they can tear some out. Id say it’s a win-win

You are the dream then . If someone braids it for me , I can pull like reins - perfect riding on some positions :) ..

[Sv****]

20 minutes ago, Dave-Lothbrok said:

You are the dream then . If someone braids it for me , I can pull like reins - perfect riding on some positions :) ..

That’s the idea. I don’t do it for everyone

[AB****]

You slide your hand up from the base and grab as much hair as you. At the crown, instead of pulling, you squeeze. That is the only right way. Imo

[Ph****]

For me, if you pull at the top, i can't handle it, but if you pull from the back and pull down . I melt like a marshmallow...

If somebody has my mind wrapped around their mind, then I can take it anyway ...

[si****]

I have long hair and often wear it in a ponytail. I had a guy grab my ponytail and yank it really hard. Damn near broke my neck! So when pulling someone's ponytail, don't yank it back harshly. That being said, I love it when someone pulls my ponytail or grabs my hair. Just don't break my neck doing it!

[ch****]

So as a hairstylist imma chime in, me I love hair pulling, but you can definitely hurt someone. But you can also break and damage the hair and pull it from the follicle. So nape area to lower back of the head ( occipital for us nerds) fingers close to roots and use pressure to “pull” back” firmly. It’s about direction and a build of of *** or control. They will tell you when it’s hard enough.

As for textured or curly hair, the first step is always asking. Some curly folks don’t like their hair touched, or have had bad experiences with previous partners. Even tho tighter curl patterns can seem hard there are ways to work around it. Take more hair ( especially with fine hair, large amounts of hair or else you will pull out hair) keep your grip close to the base. Ease your fingers inside the hair as far as you can, then grip. Don’t pull on those tiny little baby hairs by the neck that hurts. And again it’s about firm guidance and control, inciting a response from your partner not about ripping hair out ( unless that is your thing).

[Sw****]

@Dave-Lothbrok You are right. There is a right way, and a Wrong way to pull someone's hair.
I keep an undercut as to avoid the option. Until I have a Dom in my life that I can trust with it.

[Ne****]

My thoughts, when discussing the option of hair pulling, as your partner what gets them going. What gets us going isn't necessarily going to help you with what your partner likes and wants.

[Ye****]

For me it’s when they start in the front like by moving hair out of my face to kiss me and then move around the back of my head and sliding their hand into my hair and grabbing and pulling my head back so I look up at them.

[ch****]

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[je****]

I have short hair so it needs to be close to the scalp. Gradual pulling not yanking. Preferred when either giving oral or from behind. If from behind I normally like being spanked as well. Not something I want all the time but definitely don’t mind it for a change up.

[KittyCat37]

For me, absolutely. I don’t want it pulled up by my head. I like it to be pulled down at the end and wrapped around you hand like reigns. Depends on the person I guess

[Deleted Member]

It totally depends on the situation and hair length. If you don't have much leverage, it's good to go in front of the back of the neck and run your fingers up their scalp, slowly getting a handful. If their hair is longer and thick starting from the end of her hair and wrapping it over your hand until you have a good handful is ideal.