Popular Post Mz**** Posted September 8 Popular Post I joined recently and b most kinks are far out of my interest scope. I initially joined to seek another female in my area that likes being - what I think is a pet or unicorn - for me to play with, and depending on the vibe, maybe join with my partner. Though not for her to be expected to do anything sexual him, just extra to the experience for me. Im not a dominant- but want to have a girl to play with whenever and however I want who follows the cues or direction without resistance. What is the term I am looking for? How likely is it to find someone for this type of relationship.
Da**** Posted September 8 You are looking for a unicorn . Simple . What it evolved to be when your husband joins the dynamics - is entirety upto all of you.
Ro**** Posted September 8 What you are describing sounds like you are looking for a pet submissive. For many in the community, being a 'pet' doesn't necessarily mean *** roleplay (like dressing up or acting like a specific ***). Instead, it translates to a deep, dedicated form of submission where the partner willingly gives up control, follows your cues, and places their trust entirely in your hands. It is about the mindset of being cared for and guided—essentially, someone who is happy to follow your lead because you have earned that trust and 'hold their leash.'However, a quick word of caution: the phrase 'whenever and however I want' can easily sound like you are looking for a kink dispenser rather than a human partner. In reality, submissives still have boundaries, bad days, and limits. Real life rarely functions like a fantasy on command.Finding a pet sub who is also open to an occasional couple dynamic is absolutely possible, but it takes time. You will need to build deep trust, set clear boundaries, and invest in the relationship before it safely gets to the level you are picturing
Da**** Posted September 8 Well based on what you described I can honestly say that there's a reason they're called "unicorns" they're rare to the point of being nearly mythical. Good luck.
Go**** Posted September 8 What you’re seeking is seeking you, just need to be patient, persistent and make sure to get exposure to a large enough sample group and you’ll find someone that’s a fit. Power to you ❤️
ni**** Posted September 8 21 minutes ago, GodMadeMeKinky said: What you’re seeking is seeking you, just need to be patient, persistent and make sure to get exposure to a large enough sample group and you’ll find someone that’s a fit. Power to you ❤️ Aka its a numbers game. But dont worry I feel like you have very good chances since youre female.
ey**** Posted September 8 unicorn is completely the wrong term, I don't know why so many people are suggesting it. Since, primarily the interest/dynamic is between you and her Those who are suggesting different takes on 'pet' is probably a lot closer - however most people who say they are a 'pet' are usually (though not always) in some form of pet play role Something like a "Female Submissive Playmate" or "Play Partner" might be closer Mind while you don't identify as 'Dominant' what you're describing is still a dynamic where the other person enjoys following direction. I guess a paragraph you could include to sum it up is that you are "looking for a female, submissive playmate. You would be following my direction to serve me as I need. I have a male partner, though you are primarily in service to me, though it could be discussed for you to do things under my direction for him"
Lo**** Posted September 8 If I may, you are seeking a Committed partner who may be collard to you. Not necessarily a submissive, but a partner who sexual is elated when you call, devoted when with you and looks forward to being your pleasure. You are indeed looking for a rare-rare jewel.
Vi**** Posted September 8 Basically the same thing I'm doing. I'm bi, and my f-boy wants me to bring a female sub with me. The way I translated it here was basically a heiarchy where he's a head above me. Hopefully it works out for both. Good luck.
ru**** Posted 3 hours ago Welcome to the club nobody does light bdsm it’s all get ***d till you stop breathing and get ***ed on while being tied like a hog. Sad…
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