Sp**** Posted September 16 I love to role play, how do I frame the scenario so my partner understands her part while allowing her the ability to stay in the moment. Currently, I feel like I can snap into character and just let her be herself, cuz it’s very rare that I find a woman with the ability to improvise and stay present and out of her head.
Deleted Member Posted September 16 It's not difficult to communicate with your partner what job or character is. I think most people can relate to different characters that they can ever played before. The more submissive the better
Da**** Posted September 16 Talk before you play. Talk during play. Communication is sexy. Don’t be afraid to move in and out of play. You’re building something together so it’s ok for it to not be perfect. Dont put that pressure on yourself or them.
Da**** Posted September 16 Talk - and I am not referring to a talk where you simply sit down for a coffee across the table to each other . Go for a walk and bring it out casually and discuss . Reach to a common scenario where you both come up with equally . Just saying “I would like you do be that and I would be that “ doesn’t work . Enact it a little before while you do it . I will give an example - a few years ago me and partner discussed the abduction fantasy . While going down the escalator in a packed shopping mall, I reached from behind and put my arms arojnd her neck as if I am choking her and I whispered in her ear “do as I say or suffer” … it made her wet in an instant but she knew what it would entail. We couldn’t have discussed abduction just staying indoors . It turned out fucktastic .
Sa**** Posted September 16 1 hour ago, Dave-Lothbrok said: Talk - and I am not referring to a talk where you simply sit down for a coffee across the table to each other . Go for a walk and bring it out casually and discuss . Reach to a common scenario where you both come up with equally . Just saying “I would like you do be that and I would be that “ doesn’t work . Enact it a little before while you do it . I will give an example - a few years ago me and partner discussed the abduction fantasy . While going down the escalator in a packed shopping mall, I reached from behind and put my arms arojnd her neck as if I am choking her and I whispered in her ear “do as I say or suffer” … it made her wet in an instant but she knew what it would entail. We couldn’t have discussed abduction just staying indoors . It turned out fucktastic . Sounds 🥵. Can imagine that was a very fun time. Wishing I had some one to do the same to me
De**** Posted September 16 Artists often struggle to bring the creations they can see so clearly in their minds into reality, but we mustn’t let frustration get the better of us because it only gets in the way. I would advise you to ponder upon the wisdom of the fashion photographer. They do not tell the subject “Make a face where you look surprised.” No. They tell them to turn towards the camera and imagine they unexpectedly popped a balloon. *Click* “Oh no, the scare made you drop your glass and it shattered everywhere.” *Click* 1. They know a feeling is easier to recall than it is to remember a script, this case; during heighten ecstasy. So incorporate that when discussing the scene with your partner. 2. They are in constant communication guiding them and keeping them in the moment throughout the process. This can look like suggestive questions and statements during the scene. Eg: “I bet you’d like if I …” “You’re feeling a little —— now, aren’t you?” 3. Their reaction and/or response is a good way to gauge where they are at and to assess their needs without breaking character. “I’d like to — and — you right now.” 4. Discuss afterwards what worked well for both of you, what didn’t and take notes.
aw**** Posted September 16 31 minutes ago, DeepRootedUrges said: Artists often struggle to bring the creations they can see so clearly in their minds into reality, but we mustn’t let frustration get the better of us because it only gets in the way. I would advise you to ponder upon the wisdom of the fashion photographer. They do not tell the subject “Make a face where you look surprised.” No. They tell them to turn towards the camera and imagine they unexpectedly popped a balloon. *Click* “Oh no, the scare made you drop your glass and it shattered everywhere.” *Click* 1. They know a feeling is easier to recall than it is to remember a script, this case; during heighten ecstasy. So incorporate that when discussing the scene with your partner. 2. They are in constant communication guiding them and keeping them in the moment throughout the process. This can look like suggestive questions and statements during the scene. Eg: “I bet you’d like if I …” “You’re feeling a little —— now, aren’t you?” 3. Their reaction and/or response is a good way to gauge where they are at and to assess their needs without breaking character. “I’d like to — and — you right now.” 4. Discuss afterwards what worked well for both of you, what didn’t and take notes. Wow. This was great, sound advice. The metaphor and comparison of the artist and photographer was an amazing perspective on guidance and demonstration. Thank you. 🙏🏽
aw**** Posted September 16 4 hours ago, Dave-Lothbrok said: Talk - and I am not referring to a talk where you simply sit down for a coffee across the table to each other . Go for a walk and bring it out casually and discuss . Reach to a common scenario where you both come up with equally . Just saying “I would like you do be that and I would be that “ doesn’t work . Enact it a little before while you do it . I will give an example - a few years ago me and partner discussed the abduction fantasy . While going down the escalator in a packed shopping mall, I reached from behind and put my arms arojnd her neck as if I am choking her and I whispered in her ear “do as I say or suffer” … it made her wet in an instant but she knew what it would entail. We couldn’t have discussed abduction just staying indoors . It turned out fucktastic . Fucktastic. 🤭 I agree. Walking, mini hikes, or casual strolls are great times to bring up topics that one finds are hard to discuss. It relieves the pressure of eye contact and movement allows for the release of stagnant energy that can manifest as embarrassment or shame. Not to mention proprioceptive movement and scenery changes generate endorphins that can open ones mind beyond their awareness. Great times and great vibes on walks and hikes.
aw**** Posted September 16 4 hours ago, Dave-Lothbrok said: Talk - and I am not referring to a talk where you simply sit down for a coffee across the table to each other . Go for a walk and bring it out casually and discuss . Reach to a common scenario where you both come up with equally . Just saying “I would like you do be that and I would be that “ doesn’t work . Enact it a little before while you do it . I will give an example - a few years ago me and partner discussed the abduction fantasy . While going down the escalator in a packed shopping mall, I reached from behind and put my arms arojnd her neck as if I am choking her and I whispered in her ear “do as I say or suffer” … it made her wet in an instant but she knew what it would entail. We couldn’t have discussed abduction just staying indoors . It turned out fucktastic . Fucktastic. 🤭 I agree. Walking, mini hikes, or casual strolls are great times to bring up topics that one finds are hard to discuss. It relieves the pressure of eye contact and movement allows for the release of stagnant energy that can manifest as embarrassment or shame. Not to mention proprioceptive movement and scenery changes generate endorphins that can open ones mind beyond their awareness. Great times and great vibes on walks and hikes.
Interzone Posted September 16 I like to tell them the story before I have us act it out. This removes surprise (which can cause a person to fall out of character) . If you want it to be a two hour fantasy. Have a script ready. Then once boundaries have been established. Go and enjoy those two hours
az**** Posted September 17 Roleplay is a must for me relationship wise I do multiple things to help them firstly crushon(dot)ai is an amazing site for practice scenario wise and let’s them explore without being shy same with roleplay porno and time really asking questions outside of the bedroom eventually they all become experts Aha
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