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Interesting but not me because after that encounter is you think I’m obsessing over someone that can’t even express basic human respect or acknowledgment by responding to a text like “how was your week or thank you for last weekend I learned a lot about myself. “ then you’re crazy and you don’t get my surrender because what I learned is your seduction game needs some work

What’s the silence thing all about anyway?? Are these encounters, cat and mouse chases? Ego trips.?? please help me understand the goal of that because Stonewall control has the opposite effect on me.

I’ll explain it like this. I have a chart actually of a battery and what charges me to surrender and how it dies and if you make me feel invisible after knowing I don’t want a relationship or anything ongoing consistently… just be cool. Because not acknowledging a funny joke even through text is ignorant as shit, and it makes me more dominant and so much less submissive.

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If submission is something you earn rather than demand, how do you maintain that psychological connection outside an encounter without creating expectations of a relationship? And at what point does silence stop building anticipation and start destroying the desire to surrender? I’m genuinely curious about the psychology behind this and would love to hear different perspectives from experienced Doms.

I’m genuinely curious about the psychology behind this. Are some Doms banking on the idea that their presence or the experience they create is so intoxicating that a submissive will keep craving them regardless of how little acknowledgment they give afterward? Is silence meant to build anticipation, create a chase, or rein*** control? Because if trust and mutual respect are supposed to be the foundation of D/s, wouldn’t deliberately making someone feel invisible undermine the very surrender you’re trying to inspire?

Submission is earned, never demanded. A true Dominant doesn’t need to manipulate, disappear, or manufacture insecurity to establish control. They lead with confidence, intention, and the kind of presence that naturally earns respect and inspires surrender.

Silence can create anticipation when it has purpose and understanding behind it. But when it becomes stonewalling, an ego trip, or a game of cat and mouse, it stops being dominance and starts undermining trust. There’s a clear difference between making someone crave your presence and making them question their worth.

A confident Dominant doesn’t need a submissive chasing them for validation. They set the pace, communicate with intention, and understand that authority comes with responsibility.

Real dominance isn’t about making someone feel powerless or invisible. It’s about being so assured, consistent, and intentional that surrender becomes a choice they genuinely want to make. They don’t demand respect, manipulate desire, or rely on absence to create control. They command respect through who they are and make their presence unforgettable.

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