Popular Post xb**** Posted October 28 Popular Post Any of you girls use the EverCollar app with your Dom? Master and I started using it to help me with tasks, and location sharing. Would love to hear your feedback and how you use it !
Li**** Posted October 28 Never heard of it but sounds practical/useful from this short explanation. Tbf, I don't have one at the moment, just had an arrangement DD so maybe see if I do again in future!
Dr**** Posted October 28 35 minutes ago, WolfofOdin said: Wtf with all these apps nothing fake about really talking...... You do talk, and establish rules and whatnot, the app just keeps track of progress, it's just a tool.
Keeper Posted October 28 19 minutes ago, Dragonownsphoenix said: You do talk, and establish rules and whatnot, the app just keeps track of progress, it's just a tool. I have a tool, it's called my brain, you know what they say, if you don't use it, you lose it. Location sharing is nice but not needed; nothing says lazy like using a phone for everything. The pleasure comes from putting in the work.
Mr_Rochester Posted October 28 It can be really good, especially if the admin side and keeping track of tasks and punishments isn't your particular forte. However, there have to be limits around what can and can't be left to the app. Otherwise you can end up dimming by proxy as the app becomes the focus of the interaction, rather than a useful catalyst.
Dr**** Posted October 28 3 hours ago, Keeper said: I have a tool, it's called my brain, you know what they say, if you don't use it, you lose it. Location sharing is nice but not needed; nothing says lazy like using a phone for everything. The pleasure comes from putting in the work. I hardly said to use it for everything, the app I use simply logs chores and assigns points, not everyone needs to micromanage every detail, in fact most secure people would rather focus on the meaningful details and not waste time manually filling out a chore chart. Honestly it's background noise at this point. That said, you don't have to be a dick about it, you do you and everyone else will do the same.
xb**** Posted October 28 Author 7 hours ago, WolfofOdin said: Wtf with all these apps nothing fake about really talking...... Pardon me, but we do talk on the phone and via text on a regular basis and of course, in person on a very regular basis. This is just a supplemental tool to add to our real life and in person dynamic.
xb**** Posted October 28 Author 6 hours ago, Keeper said: I have a tool, it's called my brain, you know what they say, if you don't use it, you lose it. Location sharing is nice but not needed; nothing says lazy like using a phone for everything. The pleasure comes from putting in the work. Unfortunately, you assume that we are only using this app to communicate. It is in addition to my physical collar that I wear, plus in real life and in person relationship as well as phone calls and texting. For me, I love for my Dom to know where I am. It makes me feel safer and seen and more connected to him. Part of my job as a sub is to hopefully make his life easier and find ways to make our dynamic more efficient. He’s a very busy man and likes using tools to help us both keep track of various tasks, etc..
xb**** Posted October 28 Author 6 hours ago, Keeper said: I have a tool, it's called my brain, you know what they say, if you don't use it, you lose it. Location sharing is nice but not needed; nothing says lazy like using a phone for everything. The pleasure comes from putting in the work. Also, I am neurodivergent in my brain doesn’t work like yours. So having tools to help me keep track of what my Dominant needs and expect for me is very helpful. Not everyone was like you, Please be kind.
Do**** Posted October 28 Obedience is the one I prefer with my submissivs I find it easy to navigate "set task, rewards, punishments" you can set the times for task to be done it gives reminders leading up, you can also request they have to upload a photo of the task actually having been done. Just an option
xb**** Posted October 28 Author 14 minutes ago, DomDaddy4Submissive said: Obedience is the one I prefer with my submissivs I find it easy to navigate "set task, rewards, punishments" you can set the times for task to be done it gives reminders leading up, you can also request they have to upload a photo of the task actually having been done. Just an option Yes, Ever Collar has the same features. We are still working out some of the bugs.
Do**** Posted October 28 Im intruiged to trial that app my self that you mentioned and see how it compares to the other perhaps it would be a good change, do you know if it needs a premium subscription at all to unlock certain features? Unfortunately obedience does but the free options also allows a fair bit
Mr_Rochester Posted October 28 21 minutes ago, DomDaddy4Submissive said: Obedience is the one I prefer with my submissivs I find it easy to navigate "set task, rewards, punishments" you can set the times for task to be done it gives reminders leading up, you can also request they have to upload a photo of the task actually having been done. Just an option Obedience is good, too. They're both similar in a lot of ways.
Ou**** Posted October 28 Don't let the dickheads like Keeper get to you. There's a reason he's single at his age. Do what works best for you and those involved in your dynamic. I am a teacher and we use an app as well to keep track of things. I have work, my own kids to care for and then my sub responsibilities. My Sir is understanding but strict and expects a certain level to be met and maintained. The obedience app was great for us.
xb**** Posted October 28 Author 9 minutes ago, OurKinkyLives69 said: Don't let the dickheads like Keeper get to you. There's a reason he's single at his age. Do what works best for you and those involved in your dynamic. I am a teacher and we use an app as well to keep track of things. I have work, my own kids to care for and then my sub responsibilities. My Sir is understanding but strict and expects a certain level to be met and maintained. The obedience app was great for us. Thank you! Yes Master and I both have very busy lives outside of our 24:7 dynamic
xb**** Posted October 29 Author 15 hours ago, Mr_Rochester said: It can be really good, especially if the admin side and keeping track of tasks and punishments isn't your particular forte. However, there have to be limits around what can and can't be left to the app. Otherwise you can end up dimming by proxy as the app becomes the focus of the interaction, rather than a useful catalyst. Yes absolutely. Nothing ever replaces consistent real life, face to face experiences.
xb**** Posted October 29 Author 8 hours ago, OurKinkyLives69 said: Don't let the dickheads like Keeper get to you. There's a reason he's single at his age. Do what works best for you and those involved in your dynamic. I am a teacher and we use an app as well to keep track of things. I have work, my own kids to care for and then my sub responsibilities. My Sir is understanding but strict and expects a certain level to be met and maintained. The obedience app was great for us. Well he’s also single because of his comments here and definitely does not embody a true Dom who wouldn’t automatically assume such things about a girl until he knows her.
Ma**** Posted October 29 I’ve used the obedience app and I quite like it. It’s very communication forward.
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