How to become comfortable and confident as a domme?

[no****]

I’m sort of new to being a dominant female and I was wondering if you guys could help me out with some tips and suggestions on how to improve my role and become more confident and comfortable with that side of me. I want to welcome and encourage her to come out more often but I get nervous and shy away from it most of the time and it gets frustrating and discouraging when I really enjoy it but I seem to not allow myself to take control often. I like to dom men and women. Well I’ve only been with one man. But I thoroughly enjoyed him being my sub/brat ect.

[Ti****]

You need to earn it

[ro****]

A lot of it is finding the right people, if you're a switch

[Sc****]

I'm naturally leaning towards sub. Id say communication is huge. And also, safe word and have fun with it 😁

[ho****]

Definitely the pick.of the right people. I think it may be a game of error small and learn as you go.

[Ly****]

This is a lot about fake-it-till-you-make-it. Of course you are insecure if you're lacking experience in this role. But you notice your insecurities way more than your subs do. You don't have to always be perfect to be attractive and you don't have to always be completely secure in your position to be a good domme. Your subs like you because you're attractive and because they like your energy and the things you will do to them. And all of these are attributes that belong to you and no one can take away from you. Go with the flow, do what you like and keep telling yourself that even though you don't feel confident, no one else knows that. And at one point, you'll actually be as confident as you seem