Cuckolding in modern days

[Prince7]

Which is your opinion about this fetish? 

[Samanthanasty]

Love it

[Deleted Member]

The only type of relationship that i want.

[ey****]

not for me as a cuck.... but I dunno, I'm potentially happy to be a bull

[3S****]

I shall be back later to tell you, but first i must sleep and then catch up on a few things.

[Deleted Member]

Lots of people 'talk' about wanting it....but in reality,how many  are there actually  that are lucky enough to have experienced it..

[ey****]

I personally know at least 5 couples in my local area who partake in cuckolding.  

[3S****]

What's your opinion @Prince7 ?

I think it may have changed a lot as more people are open and honest about what they want sexually. Like it's not really cheating any more as the partner knows about it and even watches or joins in. I prefer to write fantasy stories where the woman is a cheat though and her husband/partner doesn't know it. You can think up some really risky scenarios doing it that way.

I've done it several ways myself. None the ways i think i want it yet but i've enjoyed them all. I've done it online, like had sex with guys and then told my 'cucks' about it later (i didn't have many online cucks, just a few who i trusted and had met up regular with irl). I've had a guy i used to meet a lot have sex with me after i had sex with other guys, he wanted to go further with this but as we weren't in a relationship and he lived some distance away i was reluctant and didn't see a way it'd work out really, although i am still in contact with him frequently so we can pick it up again any time we want to. Lastly i've actually done the cheating on someone thing, although that wasn't to cuck anyone intentionally but can be classed as it i suppose.

Think my main reason for wanting a cuckold guy is because i'd like to have multiple partners but i don't want him to, i am open about wanting a guy who will get more pleasure from me being pleasured and know they exist. Other reasons, that may or may not apply to the actual guy, are; because i enjoy SPH, i think it's hot that a guy would lick me while i'm being fucked and not care that another guys bits are in his face, i like watching guys give oral to guys, and of course i enjoy 3sums (only with men, not with women). So i'm open to a few ways of doing it also.

[Wi****]

sorry 3Sum, but what is cuckold, I seem to be in the dark,

[3S****]

4 hours ago, wilkie said:

sorry 3Sum, but what is cuckold, I seem to be in the dark,

Not sure if sarcasm coz of my long reply, lol? I'll explain a little just in case.
It's where a woman cheats on a guy, usually, thisis where the original term cuckold comes from.

These days it's changed to being more open about someone female having a sexual thing with guys outside of a relationship and they both get off on that. Some guys don't want all the details and are happy to know their wife is going off with someone else, some want to know the details, some want to watch or for it to be videoed so they can watch later, and still some are being cheated on so won't even know. Sometimes the cucked partner also is in chastity, but not always. And cuckqueen or cuckcake are terms i have heard of recently so  women who enjoy their guy being with other women is a thing now too, probably always been a thing but i wasn't aware of the terms until recently.

[Wi****]

ah I see, and I can see why people like it, either way

[Wi****]

so what is the best part for you, or is the whole thing of doing then telling, if that makes sense

[3S****]

Dunno. I think as someone who was slut shamed (and grew up seeing guys think it was ok to slut shame women) the fact that a guy likes me having multiple partners is a big part of it. Just finding guys who are into you going with others guys as well as them was an eye opener and i only found them maybe 5 yrs ago. I had an ex way back when i was a *** who we experimented and had 3sums but he made me feel like i wasn't worth being with after that. I think part of him being a dick though was he got jealous and couldn't handle it but i'm not excusing his dickishness despite that. After that ex i always wanted to be in a poly relationship, with 2 guys as well but obviously that type of thing wasn't common 20 yrs ago. I'd probably be open to that also.

 

I do like talking about sexual experiences i've had also, especially with guys i trust. I'm pretty sure after talking to a lot of other cuckolded guys that i want to put my cuck into chastity as well, hoping to dish out some *** too. I enjoy sex where people are just using each other as well, but also like being in a relationship. All this stuff could happen in a cuckold relationship.

 

[Lugnut-4292]

I like the cuckold fantasy but no idea if the actual practice would work for us? Me and Mrs LugNut only play with each other. Mrs LugNut isn't interested in bringing anybody else into our play so that is ok with me. She tells me about all the other men 'she has been fucking' and how she wants me to clean her and them up. Just the mind play is usually enough to get me going. She gets me to wank over her or her underwear and lick clean. Introducing new people into a 20 year marriage may be fun but it might also cause a lot of damage and resentment so risking fucking up a great marriage is not worth the risk in my opinion, for us anyway. There are lots of less risky ways for us to get our kicks. Other's mileage may vary.

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[PlentyOfGirth]

3sum

It sounds like you crave the type of relationship I have with my wife.

She gets to fuck who she wants, how she wants, where she wants, when she wants.

The same rule applies to myself, but I have only played myself a couple of times.

The times I have played it has blown her mind, so I like to keep it rare so she doesn't become numb to it.

However, she plays frequently.

Usually with the same guy.

Whenever one of us do play, we always tell each other all about it. How good it was, what we did, if they were better, if we want it again etc.

We do get jealous, but that is when the real fun begins. Fighting those feelings of jealousy, while being in each others arms is a real headfuck. 😄

Try finding yourself a side dude that is fully aware of your relationship, and milk it (and him) for all you can. When it no longer satisfies, find a way to kick it up a notch.

[PlentyOfGirth]

Lugnut

I understand your concern with bringing in another, as we faced the same dilema.

We found it best to start by bringing in a friend for a mfm 3 some.

Afterwards, she told me all about how it was for her, and answered any questions I had, all while she gave me an absolutely huge amount amount of attention - stroking, sucking etc.

She quenched any insecurities I had, and after doing the same again, and talking about it and several other scenarios many times, we started to experiment further.

It started with just allowing her to kiss other guys.

Then she started to pleasure them orally.

Then we let it go the whole way.

After each scenario, we discussed it at length, and made sure we were both happy to go further with it.

 

If you guys have been married for 20 years, I think you will be solid enough to get through it, even if it does go a bit sour, although, that is when you can really start to push your limits, and she can tell you she is doing it anyway, and you will just have to live with it.

That feeling, when you just love someone too much to ever leave them, even though they are completely fucking you over can be so intense. So long as she always comes home to you, and never denies you around the time of a play date with another man, it is so fucking horny!

 

Seriously.

Give it a try.

You can always pull the plug if you can't both handle it.

 

Feel free to message me if you want to discuss it any further.

 

You too 3sum.

Edited June 15, 2018 by PlentyOfGirth

[3S****]

I'm not seeking anyone to get jealous, i want them to enjoy me being with someone else and get off on that.

[Deleted Member]

Im a bi male that would love to do this. And be a clean up boy

[su****]

closest I have got was visiting some friends in Australia.  an ex girlfriend was one of the friends.  I overheard her and a guy having sex in another room...  I found it extremely exciting.   I think it was the start of my desire to experience it.

[Richedwards]

I like it in amature porn, but wouldn't want to be the cuck in real life. Not hung enough to be a bull, but would be fine with her hubby watching me go down on her.

Edited August 19, 2018 by Richedwards

[Deleted Member]

Definitely not my thing as genuinely the only cock in my fantasies is mine. 😅

 

However, I reckon one more extreme modern way would be to tie the Cuck exposed on his back and put one of those two way dildo gags on him. Sit his wife on the thing and the affair guy can bang her in the free hole, changing that at times too. He'd obviously get a very close up view, have a very intimate scent while feeling quite humiliated I should imagine. 

[Deleted Member]

See I read "Modern ways" instead of modern days 🙄