Thoughts on smoking for your partner

[Mi****]

I’ve always found smoking to be a massive turn on be it cigarettes or other things so I’m curious what other people think of it and if you didn’t smoke but you’re with someone who has that fetish and they asked you to would you do it for them ?

[Deleted Member]

I think I would be worried about all the coughing that happens when learning how to smoke

[Ki****]

What about a vape with no nicotine?

[ch****]

the kink is called capnolagnia. its the sexual arousal of seeing some one smoke or ones self. i have this kink and it is an extreme arousal. for me. my female partner does not smoke but she understands me and we have talked about it openly so when we do the act i set up fans to blow smoke away from her. i would like to have a sexual partner that smokes. that would almost be a bucket list wish. there are a wide range of reasons why one would have this kink. if your really into it research the topic and communicate with your partner who knows where it may lead.

[ey****]

So, I'm a non-smoker, but I do enjoy smoking fetish and human ashtray. 

My wife is a non-smoker so we will probably never do that together, so I do it with other people - again - only people who either smoke or are genuinely happy to smoke for say a scene or clip or whatever.

It's important to balance because - I've seen people whose relationships have fallen apart when someone has given up smoking (for any reason) and I've seen people pushed into an addiction for their partner which is never healthy.

If your partner doesn't smoke, you need to find another solution.

[UK****]

"would you do it for them ?" 100% no. I'm the exact opposite, smoking is second place to personal hygiene when it comes to biggest turn offs.

[ey****]

going the other way.  I probably wouldn't smoke for someone - though there are people where, like, yeah - I would smoke a cigarette just to use you as an ashtray and *** you with it.

[Vi****]

I wouldn't no, then I'm a non smoker, and wouldn't be with another smoker, been there and it wasn't pleasant.

[Ge****]

Wouldn't smoke for no one no way..

[Deleted Member]

I’m very curious.. What is it about smoking that turns people on? Is it the smell of the smoke? Do the chemicals trigger some type of emotion or memory?

[ch****]

it mostly is caused during adolecents having family members that smoke or seeing an attractive woman smoking, there are alot of triggers depending on the individual. It could from seeing it in media/magizines/pornography. or could be just that its taboo and with bdsm and expermentation it unlocks something in deep in the brain that the person had a sexual arousal that hasnt been felt before.

[sw****]

So my crush vapes an it literally makes me scream inside and idk why but it's so hot 💦

[Deleted Member]

3 hours ago, chuck51 said:

it mostly is caused during adolecents having family members that smoke or seeing an attractive woman smoking, there are alot of triggers depending on the individual. It could from seeing it in media/magizines/pornography. or could be just that its taboo and with bdsm and expermentation it unlocks something in deep in the brain that the person had a sexual arousal that hasnt been felt before.

I’ve stopped smoking numerous times, but have started up again at times, when I’ve seen an attractive woman smoking. So you’re right as regards me, chuck51

[yo****]

Smoking Bunny, art work, hot!

[TR0S3PH1N3]

I'm going to take a proactive stance on this one;

Firstly, ignoring health and hygiene.
Classics Audrey Hepburn? for one, granted seen as old hat but hey the burlesque speakeasys prohib. USA , jazz clubs where you could barely see the fishnets through the smog lol.

A slightly more graphic example , you've came that and been laying you need air , you March to the bathroom , still steamed up from the shower before ,you still feel dizzy.
You stagger gauntily to the bed to cuddle back up.

Your partner is stood bent over out resting on the windowsill ,as bead of c*m cascades down there leg and the smoke trills into the twilight dawn.
"Do you want half of this"
You refuse , you can barely move,
You ask "any good for you?"
-" ive been barely able to breath im tingling head to toe , budge up my legs have gone"

This is why i haven't written a book, but still , yeah, that's my opinion .

 

[sl****]

As a smoker who has been with someone that had a smoking fetish. I think it's great. Because I get to do what I was going to do anyway and if it turns him on, all the better! Win-win for both of us

[pu****]

Depends on what they want me to smoke - tobacco cigarettes are a no, but vapes would be fine.

[Mr****]

I enjoy a cigar once and a while but very respectful about it, use to smoke cigarettes and quite using vaping and last time I tried a cigarette tasted like licking an ash tray

[Su****]

I would GLADLY smoke for someone if I was asked

[pa****]

I would love if someone smoked for me, blowing smoke In my face and even ashing in my mouth, only if someone was local to me 😭😭 I’m between Newbury and reading in England if a goddess does appear!

[naughtyu]

To be honest I find it so attractive an seductive. It’s a massive push my button for me Watching a fine lady smoke in front of me in a seductive manner. Each person has some sort of weird dark side in them. so if it makes you happy enjoy it 🤙🏽

[ma****]

I hate smoking. I won't smoke, drink or take any substances for anyone. I won't date or vet smokers anymore.