wa**** Posted July 19, 2022 Posted July 19, 2022 Sometimes it's also not just about doing what is pleasing but stepping outside that box to bring that *** out someone thats holding back!
wa**** Posted July 19, 2022 Posted July 19, 2022 Just go with it and not fight or try competing just let it flow
Deleted Member Posted July 19, 2022 Author Posted July 19, 2022 Set up a safe word and, frankly, you should probably set up a live cam in the room so if you say your safe word or something goes sideways, there’s some way for you to let him know.
Qu**** Posted July 20, 2022 Posted July 20, 2022 My gut reaction to the OP's post and not seeing any of this mentioned or spelled out in the comments I've read... "The man can then do anything for the next three hours" and "no limits except for..the classics" ~ I really hope in the vetting that 'the classics' are extremely well thought and spelled out because leaving that up to subjective interpretation could make or break this experience for you. An idea for vetting may be to present the scenario and ask the candidates for what fantasies they'll want to act out on you once they've stepped into it. Then your partner is at least getting an idea of where the guy's head is at, and could weed out those who are too vanilla, to those that may have ideas out of line with where you two were thinking things might go. For example, a guy slowly dragging a knife point over your skin might be fine, but perhaps him cutting you isn't, or is ultimately only okay in some places. Might be good to define that. Or perhaps your fine with any sort of "toys" you can imagine, but would that consent cover clamps on all your bits, using spreaders/expanders, putting multiple large things into all of your openings all at once, while he uses that "special shock wand" he may have brought with him? There's a mess of that kind of stuff out there, and it could very well be what you're looking for, but if not.... The degree to which you and your partner need to flush out the various extremes that could take place, so he's really clear when setting up the "choose your own adventure" menu for them, that your *** of the extreme/unknown is maintained while at the same time knowing deep down you'll likely survive so you don't have some sort of mental break, (I believe) would be really important. The facts are that three hours is a really long time and you have zero guarantees that any vetting is going to cancel out the guy who wants trophies or worse. All that said, whatever the safety measures you're planning on putting into place, remember that hotel rooms come with extra safety lock/latches. So once your guy let's him in, he could make reentry near impossible by securing it with duct tape. Further, you'll be in a position where he could put anything over your face to muffle your cries for help. So your bf should make sure the batteries are new, the set up is well tested, and anything that could be used against you is removed from the space... etc. Sorry for the wall of words. It's just where my mind went and it seems you have some reservations - and for good reason. People are crazy and who knows what sorts of hardcore porn rabbit holes they've been exploring since the pandemic began, or before, and can't wait to try out...
bc**** Posted July 22, 2022 Posted July 22, 2022 Get you boyfriend to choose wisely and ensure both your bf and plus 1 know your boundaries. Your bf is the one who has to manage this. Enjoy! Will be hot x
Si**** Posted July 22, 2022 Posted July 22, 2022 Double check with your bf so he can check that the match is aware of your limits. Setting up a recording is a good idea, so your bf can go through it later to double check you weren't being ***d past said limits. Lastly, have a safe word or panic button having your bf check in every hour or so with the match might be something to negotiate just to make sure you're safe.
Ri**** Posted July 23, 2022 Posted July 23, 2022 Also if want to can setup a cheal wifi camera or like a pet cam. Know sounds weird but if bf giving trust then a camera he can link to phone, will allow him check up or even communicate to you. Also give the person choose a code word
me**** Posted July 24, 2022 Posted July 24, 2022 This sounds hot but be careful, and make sure u guys get all info about this lucky guy
os**** Posted February 22 Posted February 22 Have done it a few times with total strangers it actually very safe if you do it write my girl loves it
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