Kfactor Posted September 24, 2018 Posted September 24, 2018 This is my first post, go gentle! In going to see a doctor tomorrow about potential straightening, and of course I leave this question till the last minute! My penis has quite a severe kink to the left, and I've never managed to deal with it emotionally. I've been ashamed of it for 2 decades. The girl I used to walk home from school and I got close when we were 16, and I fled from the situation when I felt sex was impending. She doesn't know to this day that is wasnt her fault. I've had many casual encounters, and some have been with women close to social groups or work. Twice the message has gotten back to people I know and there have been jokes made at my expense. These jokes absolutely destroyed me. And they haunt me now. Some partners have been fine with it. Some acknowledged, some just didn't care. I'm very hungry sexually and expect the same from partners, and even when the partner is fine with it, I am not. I don't enjoy using it. I feel that oral is just service to me, whereas I want my partner to want to give it. The doc has said I could lose overall length, and potentially libido. My libido is strong but this problem suppresses it, so I don't feel these 2 negatives are strong enough to dissuade me from surgery. I am concerned about ending up with a frankenstein penis though, I'm not sure how id cope if it went wrong. Does anyone have any experience of this process?