New to impact play

[littlemiss37]

I'm new to impact play . Tried it twice and loved it . I never thought about the different sensations . stingy pain or thud pain etc.  It's a mental release for me having eupd which is also called bpd . I have tried rope and it felt love and contained . Neones thoughts on ne of this or ne vetting advice for impact and rope play  x

[Deleted Member]

I got LOTS of thoughts… vetting is massive! I never play when I first meet someone period! Talk to others they either claim to know or know… I love the feeling of both, my fav is bent of a bench stool, tied up with your hands and feet are secure on the legs of the chair so you ass is completely exposed and front and centre.

[Char__]

Do some research on rope play and nerve damage. Very important that the person tying you is experienced. For beginners, go to a rope class and someone will guide you both.

Vetting for impact: look for someone who wants to start with just hand and paddle and work up. The Dominant should want to vet how *you* react.

[ca****]

Rope play.... seek advice and as the message above says - be worth going to a rope class....

I spoke to someone yrs ago - who really wanted to get into rope and suspensions (shibari ??  )  She went to many classes and learnt the ropes that way and then found a rigger to 'work' with....   at some point something went 'amiss' and she had some injury... so dont take the rope stuff lightly...

[Deleted Member]

Big tip… just hit me! Rope play, always have scissors available!!!!

[littlemiss37]

Thanks everyone x

[Di****]

Mmm I love this pain

[littlemiss37]

2 minutes ago, DiamondLotus said:

Mmm I love this pain

That's the thing I didn't think I was one for pain . I like the paddle with rubber on it . I was like mmmmm good pain and redness to go with it x

[Lord_Talion]

Kitchen treatment