Popular Post DeviantInside Posted August 11, 2023 Popular Post You don’t have to like me You don’t have to agree with me You don’t owe me anything You don’t have to respond to me You don’t have to respect me or my opinions automatically You shouldn’t trust what I say without verification You can feel however you feel about me I should try to understand your viewpoint I don’t have to agree with you What is right for me may not be for you What is right for you may not be for me I do not know your life/triggers/history/experiences You do not know my life/triggers/history/experiences There is almost always something I can learn from you There is almost always something I can learn from you I will probably be turned off by something you are turned on by There is probably something I am turned on by that turns you off Same applies for hobbies, world views, ethics That doesn’t mean it cannot adapt or change In either direction My opinion isn’t the correct answer Your opinion isn’t the correct answer We don’t have to agree Don’t lie Being yourself is the only way to find people that like you Have something to offer Everyone you talk to is a person (except bots… bots aren’t people) Someone rejecting you probably isn’t a bot You don’t have to engage with everyone Or anyone Learn Learn more Verify what you learn Not everyone who is confident is an expert People who know what they are talking about aren’t always confident Don’t let someone cut you off from friends/family/learning Bdsm isn’t one sided Relationships should be mutually beneficial Equal isn’t the same as fair or beneficial or mutual Try to understand yourself first Hooking up isn’t the only thing for everyone (or even most) Bdsm does not mean easy lay Most good bdsm relationships are also just good relationships Talk to lots of people Read a lot and find what resonates There is probably someone that shares your kinks Work out what compromises you are willing to make Work out what compromises you are not willing to make These may change depending who you are talking to Even hard limits Don’t feel you have to compromise hard limits… or soft limits Talk Communicate A lot You should feel able to express yourself You may be wrong But not automatically Feel free to add your own
ja**** Posted August 11, 2023 Just because we disagree on something doesn't mean we have to hate each other.
Deleted Member Posted August 11, 2023 Dr. Seuss taught us all this. Or did we miss his message. He did not say we are all entitled he said we all have our way and that’s ok. Because I like the blue can and you like the red doesn’t mean we can’t have both or just share the green can. My only thing I would Add is “ I am not the same that you had before do not assume I will act the same, I will not assume you will act the same as I had before. Until we do then we should not act the same as we were before.
Deleted Member Posted August 11, 2023 Don't trust people straight out the gate. There are scammers, users, and ***rs who like to try and take advantage of our kinky desires. Trust is earned and not freely given.
An**** Posted August 12, 2023 unpopular opinion but you are entitled to respect. not everyone agrees with every single opinion but respect is still a must. to add respect peoples personal boundaries and limits. actions speak louder than words if someone isnt good for you.. leave, even if you *** being alone or really like them+if you *** being alone work on yourself (get to the root of why you *** being alone and work from there) dont put someone over your morals follow your gut, it never lies feel your emotions and process them without taking it out on others.(allow yourself to cry and feel hurt) no *** no gain ( the sun always comes out after a rainstorm even if it takes a lil while but even the rain is good, it provides growth) *** is for growth not holding in your trauma doesnt define you dont be codependent on anyone ever, if you’re happy with yourself than you’ll never truly be lonely take breaks from social media is f**ks ur brain n not in the hot way (i got rlly carried away lmao)
st**** Posted August 12, 2023 I’m not going to pay for you to play with us and if your attention is to a object that can’t say no then leave it alone
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