FemGuyDabs Posted March 30 Posted March 30 I used to be terrified to discuss it now. Not so much. I love to talk about all of me and be there to support others as they're learning about themselves!
Pe**** Posted March 30 Posted March 30 I discovered my kinky side at a time when bandwidth wouldn't allow for webcam and sound at the same time (I also lived in a house with multiple people), so I became a confident voyeur and exhibitionist in my own bedroom, happy to type about it all but terrified of talking about it out loud!
ge**** Posted March 30 Posted March 30 Depends on the circumstance - expressing myself as in talking about sex/kink I am very confident - expressing myself as in taking steps to engage with people with a view to sex/kink not so much.
Ba**** Posted March 30 Posted March 30 I hesitate on a couple of things in forums like this, but behind closed doors, I'm all in. No judgement and very few rules, I have no hesitation to go into taboo "dirty" areas and get what I /we want
Go**** Posted March 30 Posted March 30 Prior to kink, I had desires, but no where that offered a space for expression and creativity for openness with one’s sexuality. Prior to I would compare myself or try to live up to a societal norm (vanilla) however, kink/BDSM offered a platform of sorts for the things that one might want to try without the shame and offered a sense of normalcy and belonging that feels like liberation.
la**** Posted March 31 Posted March 31 I had less confidence when I was younger but I was also more introverted and less experienced. Age and meeting like minded kink people defiantly helped a lot to get past the norms of society.
ma**** Posted April 1 Posted April 1 Saturday at 08:34 AM, gemini_man said: Depends on the circumstance - expressing myself as in talking about sex/kink I am very confident - expressing myself as in taking steps to engage with people with a view to sex/kink not so much. I'm the same.
ma**** Posted April 1 Posted April 1 I like expressing my likes or desires as long as others don't turn thirsty just because I talk about my fantasies. In normal vanilla circumstances, with vanilla people, I won't express much unless I'm asked; that's due to respect.
PhoenixRiSeN Posted April 9 Posted April 9 Behind closed doors, my confidence comes from my Dom’s use of my body and abilities. however, I remain a private person and outside my confidence wanes
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