How to start?

[demisexual_but_tryin]

My boyfriend is super into choking and *** stuff, but I'm a bit new to all of this as well as being a softie by heart. Any advice on being the top my boyfriend wants? tbh I think I'd enjoy it too, but this is all very intimidating and I don't want to hurt him

[ey****]

regarding choking.  although it seems straightforward breath play can be dangerous and if you don't want to hurt him you will feel more confident if you learn about it first.  Seek out tutorials on breath play :) 

Degredation - for that it depends what sort, I mean what is degrading for me might not be for someone else and vice versa.  But you can find some scenarios from him that might appeal to you :)