Male (28) Single
Being a Dom is not about power or cruelty. Being a Dom is a responsibility. Being a Dom is about making sure your submissives safety security and protection are your utmost top priority. Believe it or not we as Doms have rules we need to follow, and we adhere to these rules.(If you are not sure about the rules, Google them). It is also checking in with your submissive throughout the day. The Dom who doesn't think it is a responsibility is only deceiving themselves. We also need to lead by example. A submissive will not submit just to anyone. They yes are submissive but they're not your submissive. Trust is a very big factor in all of this. You have to prove yourself to the submissive.