BDSM Dating in San Diego

i’m 19f and places like this aren’t really my boyfriends scene as much as i’d love to get watched by people in a public setting like this, he doesn’t want to😔but he still is encouraging me to check it out even if it’s not his cup of tea, but every time i try to plan with my friends to go it gets canceled somehow. i really wanna go and see what the vibe is! if anyone’s been or is interested in going we should all goooo