BDSM Dating in San Francisco

I’m looking for a Dom who values trust, respect, and communication. For me, submission is something I choose to give, and I want it to be met with patience, consistency, and care. I enjoy structure and discipline, but I also need boundaries and aftercare to be respected. Our first encounter should be a conversation — a chance to get to know each other, discuss limits, and see if our dynamic feels like a good fit. I’m looking for something real, where I can explore my submission in a safe, honest, and meaningful way. Any exchange of goods or commitments will always be in person, never online.